Published on 12, July, 2020
Hello,
My name is Astridlora. I was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome in 2011, I'm 23 next year and right now my life is so bad and everything seems so difficult. I lost my family in 2015/2016 and I am really struggling to cope now. I'm so alone, I have no friends. I've lost interest in everything I used to do and I feel like my life and future are just going nowhere. I can't live without my family, I can't be alone. I have a good job but as a person I am nothing. I decided to come here in the hopes that I can get some help and hopefully get back to the way I used to be.
Hi, Astridlora. I didn't see your post when it first came up (not sure if I was a member of the group then), but I've just spotted it. I'm really sorry to hear you've had such a tough time. I hope you're doing okay - feel free to send me a message if you ever need to talk.
welcome Astridlora,
Sorry to hear of your massive loss.
please post regularly to this forum regularly so we can help you.
aidie
Hello, Astridlora. I have recently come onto the forum, having been diagnosed with Level 2 ASD. Please do feel free to ask any questions and read my profile. I'm sure that everyone on here will give their best advice.
I was touched by your story. I cannot begin to imagine what you have been through.
You are NOT nothing. You are a strong individual who has survived such serious heartbreak, and has decided to turn to others for support when you need it most.
Simply just try to live the best life you can, while helping others along the way.
Don't worry, everything will work out.
God bless.
Hi! I wish I found this post sooner; you must be going through so much-- I hope you're doing well and strong, it's awful to lose people. I hope I can support you in any means necessary. :) You can always drop by to leave a message or anything! I send my immense support. ♡
Thank you for your kind words. Shortly after it happened I was inside a hospital/home and the kind staff looked after me for a long time, I go back there frequently because that's where my therapist is. As for family, I have cousins but they all live far away so I don't see or hear from them very much now.
Hello! Thank you .
Hello and welcome to the community!
I’m really sorry to hear that! It must have been awful losing them all, especially so close together. Do you have any other family that are supportive? If you’ve lost interest in things then it might be worth a visit to your GP. You’re very young to be having to cope with all of that on your own!
Hello, thank you. I hope I can as well.
Hello. I'm hoping posting here will help me as well. i didn't lose them all at the same time, but it was very close together. I lost my mum to illness and then I lost my dad and sister in a car crash. I miss them all so much :( .
hello and welcome - I hope you can find some support here
Hello and welcome I’m so sorry that things are bad for you right now. I hope you can find support and friendship on this forum, I know posting on here has helped me loads. How did you lose your family if you don’t mind me asking?