I don't know why, but now we are having my second son put through the diagonsis process I am feeling a little wobbly. My eldest son (7) has recently been diagnosed with ASD and today we were told that they believe his brother (5) has also got the same thing. This is not a huge surprise, but certainly this has started to become an overwhelming situation because the boys are polar opposites and different again to their firey younger sister. Our household is now in a state of flux and I am really looking for others who are in the same position....what do we do now?