Published on 12, July, 2020
Have you ever had that lightbulb moment when suddenly everything clicks into place and the muffled noise of life becomes crystal clear!
Well that was me about 12 months ago when my wife established that she was indeed “on the spectrum”...all the ‘emotional coldness’ and ‘heart of stone’ comments now seem a bit inappropriate!
I am starting to understand my very complex wife a little more with everything I read and discuss...it’s challenging sometimes, but Inhope this forum will provide me with some more insights into bei married to a highly intelligent, amazingly creative, deeply loyal and caring yet highly frustrating wife!
My first question as a newby is; Is there a forum when partners can chat to asks questions, seek advice etc?
Check out Cynthia Kim. I’m a self diagnosed wife ...
https://musingsofanaspie.com/aspergers-and-marriage/
I don’t have a heart of stone or emotional coldness but feel a great deal... a huge, huge amount.. I show it in multiple ways, but maybe not in immediate obvious ways..
Ellie
p.s well done you for trying to find out!
p.p.s slightly paranoid now that you might be my husband!
Am also wondering if this is my husband...but the language style feels slightly off!!!