Feeling lost with diagnosis

Hello.  I'm new to this site as I've just been formally diagnosed with ASD in my mid-40s.  I have no friends at all, but a wonderful wife and kids.  Have struggled all of my life with serious anxiety around a myriad of factors. The diagnosis is somewhat a relief and was expected, yet when delivered it hit me like a thunderbolt.  The past two days I only feel despair; having never felt 'normal' (whatever that is)  I always hoped I'd feel so much better one day with the correct help/medication.  I can't help feeling I'll always feel this way, desperately sad and anxious. Even the consultant psychologists have admitted I have significant issues that are worse now as I was never diagnosed much earlier in life. They are puzzled why I haven't been considered for ASD and diagnosed in the past as it was very clear cut to them when going through the assessments, which is often difficult in older adults.  The root cause of my issues are definitely ASD, and I'm trying to be positive about the future, but I'm struggling to see the positives at the moment.  Hope to read of some positive stories on these blogs.

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  • Hello, went through a very similar thing myself.Diagnosed late in life .... when i was at school i was expelled and classed as a ''mental patient'' and spent many many years in various institutions both in UK and abroad. Dont ever give up ... having a diagnosis is a good thing and you have plenty of ''friends'' now .... and its a very positive thing that you have a wonderful wife and kids, i am guessing here but i think that makes you one of the (not sure about this word) ''lucky'' ones .... focus on whats good, let it grow and try to be happy.All the best.

  • Thanks, that's very nice of you.

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