Confused

Hi - I'm a 49 year old male and last year I decided to find out who I was. I went to my GP and explained my problems and he reffered me to the Adult Mental Health services. In April 2016 I attended an intial Autism assessment screening and was told at the end of it that I would be put on the waiting list for an ADOS. After a long wait I was invited to a pre ADOS screening and given various questionaires to complete to take with me. When I went I was asked various questions about my mental health concerning any issues with anxiety or depression. I explained that although I could be  anxious at times and sometimes had spells of depression that for the majority of the time I had no significant issues with anxiety or depression that caused any problems for me. I was then told that due to a change in NHS policy that I was no longer eligiable for the diagnositic process as the adult mental health service could only look at diagnosing autism as part of treating someone with severe mental health issues due to anxiety and depression. I was also told that if they were allowed to diagnose me that they would put me on the spectrum with a profile of Aspergers Syndrome. They have put me on a register in case the eligibility criteria change again as they would then be able to start the diagnosis process up again. Part of me accepts who I am but another part of me needs it spelling out in black and white as I keep doubting myself. I'm so confused and don't know what to do.

               

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  • Thanks Trainspotter

    When I was told the criteria had changed to be eligable to be considered for an ADOS she also gave me details of someone who can do a private diagnosis for around 5 to 6 hundred pounds which is out of the question at the moment as I haven't told my wife or anyone else about this yet. They also told me that alot of people are happy without having an official diagnosis. I don't need a diagnosis at the moment for work purposes and have managed ok there for 27 years. A lot of people at work find me quiet and strange but hey ho, thats who I am. Part of me is ok for now knowing who I am but part of me still wants to see it in black and white and I don't know which part of me to follow. Surpose I just need time to think it through.

          

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  • Thanks Trainspotter

    When I was told the criteria had changed to be eligable to be considered for an ADOS she also gave me details of someone who can do a private diagnosis for around 5 to 6 hundred pounds which is out of the question at the moment as I haven't told my wife or anyone else about this yet. They also told me that alot of people are happy without having an official diagnosis. I don't need a diagnosis at the moment for work purposes and have managed ok there for 27 years. A lot of people at work find me quiet and strange but hey ho, thats who I am. Part of me is ok for now knowing who I am but part of me still wants to see it in black and white and I don't know which part of me to follow. Surpose I just need time to think it through.

          

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