newly diagnosed son

Hello there, we are new to this forum and we are looking for help and support that anyone can give please.

Our 11 year old son has just been diagnosed with a-typical autism.He also has a speech and language problem, dyslexia (which we have known about for a couple of years) and a severe anxiety problem.

He has had a severe melt down at school as he is struggling with the pressures of the impending SATS tests this year and feels inadequate against his peers. He does have CAMHS involvement, SENCO support, and we are liasing with an educational psychologist, but we are stunned at this new autism diagnosis and struggling to come to terms with both that, and our sons low self esteem, awful anxiety issues and very low state of mind, it really is heartbreaking and we are struggling to know how to support him best. He has constant outbursts and meltdowns, can be rather aggressive at times, followed by tears upon tears and then becomes withdrawn and negative.

We are completely exhausted and concerned about the future and how we are going to get through this. Any help and advice would be so gratefully recieved!

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  • Dear all,

    I've read this post with interest. Our son is 3 and a half, and I fear for the future.  I don't know how to deal with him or how he / we are going to make it through life!!  My heart breaks for his him, and his brother, who deals with him really well. Reading how some of you deal with things and what can occur is scary but at the same time I can see that we will not be alone, and that people do go on.  We have to, right? Wishing you all the very best.

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  • Dear all,

    I've read this post with interest. Our son is 3 and a half, and I fear for the future.  I don't know how to deal with him or how he / we are going to make it through life!!  My heart breaks for his him, and his brother, who deals with him really well. Reading how some of you deal with things and what can occur is scary but at the same time I can see that we will not be alone, and that people do go on.  We have to, right? Wishing you all the very best.

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