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After months of researching and questioning myself I finally decided to phone and try to arrange a GP appointment to get an assessment for autism. I'm a 20 year old student in my final year at university. For around the past year I've been struggling with depression and I've had anxiety in some form for as long as I can remember. I was told that I couldn't be on the autistic spectrum because I'm at university and I wouldn't be where I was if I was autistic. I don't really understand this and it has made me feel even worse and even more confused. I've been seeing a counceller for my mental health problems and want to bring it up with him but I feel as though I would be wasting his time. I feel lost at the moment and it is seriously affecting my uni work and my relationships with family and friends, who are distancing themselves fro me when I try to talk about the traits of autism I experience. Any help in understanding and coping better would be really apprreciated. I haven't told anyone else I think I am autistic. Should I? Am I just making this up in my head? Do I keep trying to get a diagnosis?

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  • After going to my appointment today I have been told that I can get a referal for an assessments if I really wanted to which I will go ahead with. As far as I've noticed the services in Scotland are far better than anywhere else. Along with this i am trying to learn to cope with severe anxiety disorder. The decision for how to move forward has been left to me and I'm not sure of the best route. At the minute I think the most useful option is to carry on with both, as well as university and a part-time job at the busiest time of year for shopping and also other issues to deal with in my own life. This could well be too much to deal with. Do I need complete commitment to the assessments and CBT for anxiety because I can't give up with uni or work as this would only be bad for me mentally?

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  • After going to my appointment today I have been told that I can get a referal for an assessments if I really wanted to which I will go ahead with. As far as I've noticed the services in Scotland are far better than anywhere else. Along with this i am trying to learn to cope with severe anxiety disorder. The decision for how to move forward has been left to me and I'm not sure of the best route. At the minute I think the most useful option is to carry on with both, as well as university and a part-time job at the busiest time of year for shopping and also other issues to deal with in my own life. This could well be too much to deal with. Do I need complete commitment to the assessments and CBT for anxiety because I can't give up with uni or work as this would only be bad for me mentally?

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