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Depression

Starstruck

Has anyone else lived with depression,but found this has made you the target of abuse from family members or the local community ?

I wrote frankly about the fact me & my Son had been stalked & raped.  Then ignored.

The police blamed these events on my depression & Autisim.  

Three people have taken me seriously & understand my frustration at not being believed.

Though previously before the hate campaign family would moan about me telling the truth bluntly without considering others feelings.

I now live with my relative & her boyfriend who she has shackled herself with.  

NOT being at home and still not feeling safe is extremely depressing for me.

My housing want to be seen to be doing somthing.  

But didn't move us & refused to accept stalking/rape plus illegal entry to our home has made me feel sad about the people we are surrounded by.

The neighbourhood has been talking about it laughing about it.

Plus I was receiving verbal insults.  All of this I can't prove.  But I still feel if I was taken seriously this may have not escalated.

I would feel better if I was able to start again in another property. In abother area. As living half hour up the road in the same area in my relatives front room is like prison to me.  

I'm under the impression because I'm atypical autistic with no learning difficulties I'm not entitled to help with this ?  I have a Son he is severely Autistic. At least he has been offered some support.

Any advice welcome

Star

  • Today I received a copy of my mental health records.  

    Which I requested.  They eventually gave me them.  

    After being told by two members of staff I could collect them from the adminsters office. Another administrator said bring ID, then wait for them via the post.

    That was followed up by sending them to my flat where we can't live because we're not safe there.  Which lead to these records sitting at the post office for 18 days.

    Called her Friday as, I requested  they be sent where we sleep.

    Eventually today they were sent to where we sleep.  

    Upon reading these records a lot of the information is incorrect.  It feels like they are excusing the facts I tried to convey to them about all the abuse we have been subjected to by giving me a diagnosis that no one discussed with me or my Mum.  

     I had a mental Health assessment August 2015 advised by a Solicitor because I was under the impression,the Police were not taking me seriously.

    This practitioner didn't mention delusions to me when I first met him verbally  or in writing. Took my Mum and an advocate with me he never once mentioned this.

    The assessment he wrote then amended did not mention delusions.  To this day this is not how my symptoms of depression presents.

    There was a witness to some Stalking incidents.  It even says they have brought into the delusions !  They also witnessed when we left my flat & returned to find the cooker.  We had left it as the heating had broken.  Illegal entry had been gained to the flat.  But they never leave signs of forced entry !

    if any practitioners looked at this they will come to the conclusion all the abuse was not real.

    The only ones helped by this level of dishonesty is the people that stalked us & raped us.

    It doesn't take into consideration Stalkers can go on to physically harm their target.  I kept a diary of the stalking & threats.  Which the Police Social Services ignored my Housing ignored.

    It also ignored the fact that vulnerable Adults can be targeted for sexual exploitation. 

    I found lots of information on preventive procedures.  In our situation.  I have found we were prevented from getting help or justice. 

    The area in which we stay.  This behaviour has been excused by Man Women & teenagers.  It was group stalking.

    Is there anything I can do when records are inaccurate ?

    Other  people's  dishonesty has destroyed our privacy & safety.

    My depression seems to be lifting but I'm really disappointed in  people.

    I don't lie  on purpose it's a waste of energy.  Seems pointless.

    But I've often been lied about after telling the truth about others abuses of myself or my Son.

    I question the integrity of some professionals.  Their lies can ruin lives.

    Will try to move physically & emotionally.  What else is to be done.