In Limbo/ Waiting Times/ Fed up/ Struggling with Life/ Having a Moan

I've been feeling a bit lost lately. I dunno where to start. As some will know from my previous posts I've been struggling previously with depression and split up from a long-term relationship. I'm dealing with it. But I'm still waiting for help. I've been refered for talking therapy since february, and been waiting for my assessment for aspergers/asd since november last year. Nothings happened, I'm still waiting. Been chasing them up, but getting the same answer to "continue waiting". I'm struggling with life, with sensitivites and sensory issues. Struggling with energy levels and sleeping. I have parents that are wonderful, but at the same time a bit anti-mental health, which makes it hard on difficult days to get them to understand. When I say I'm feeling tired or overwhelmed I usually get told to 'look for a job' or 'do something with myself'. I just feel like i'm stuck in limbo at the moment, just living a life where I'm not a normal person who can just get on with life, but also not diagnosed so therefore cannot get support for the disorder. Just feel very tired all the time, its draining.