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At what point to seek a diagnosis?

java

Hi,

I read that if you're seeking a diagnosis your life needs to be negatively impacted to have an official diagnosis, how is that quantified? Is it accidentially offending people and being written off as weird or something more obvious such as very public meltdowns (where you scare normal people or they start pointing etc)? 

It is obvious that I have Aspergers particularly since I was diagnosed with coeliacs and are no longer glutenated, and have had problems since childhood (with examples in the diagnostic criteria). I don't think there's any doubt that I wouldn't 'achieve' a diagnosis but I don't know if it's impacting my life enough to warrant one in the eyes of the NHS. I am holding down a part time job (working with the public but in a very niche way which happens to be my interest, although there is major friction between myself and my manager which could be explained if just told her), I can generally do what I want but the things that make me happy are quiet and organised, I'm in a loving relationship, the problems come when I've done too much or I'm totally overloaded otherwise I can hide it well(ish).

I would like to go into a busyish place (cafes, events, days out) without bursting into tears/rocking etc because of a coffee machine screeching or someone bumping into me unexpecetdly. I can predict it sometimes so I generally run away and hide somewhere quiet but others one second I'm fine and then the next one not so good. It would be great to go do the weekly shopping trip without needing time to recover because the noise and the visual information is like being hit in the head with a hammer. 

What line do you have to cross for them to take notice?

I'm terrified about going to the doctor, I went through the mental health system for 3 years because they thought I had bi-polar tendancies which looking back now is laughable and that was utterly hourrendous. In fact, the only reason I wasn't discharged fairly quickly because I was overwhelmed in an early session, couldn't concentrate and ended up bouncing my leg unconciously...she pointed it out and told me it was weird and they kept me in the system for another 2.5 years which made everything so much worse.

I'm sorry for the long post. I think it may have come to a point where I need some help and I'm really scared.

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    Hi Java (and everyone else who has contributed to this)

    There have been a couple of other threads ongoing that have tackled this thorny issue.

    If you cannot carry out the "normal" activities of daily life then you should consider diagnosis with a view to some intervention that may help you cope with things better.

    Example,

    1. if you can't manage to go into a coffee shop because of the noise of the espresso machines then this is a real problem that needs addressing. I know exactly how this feels and was wondering if coffee machines were getting louder but no, I was getting more sensitive.

    2. If you can't manage to maintain good relations at work. Major friction between you and your manager is a real issue that, if not tackled, will lead to you walking out and looking for another job.

    Both of these are entirely big enough problems to warrant intervention by the NHS. The government does not want people to be falling out of employment and creating conflict and tension. Nobody wants people to be going round in a state of fear and anxiety about doing the normal activities like shopping and looking after themselves.

    If you go to your GP then you need to make a coherent and clear case with two very separate elements

    A) What problems you are having.

    B) Why you think that autism is the root cause.

    It is a good idea to write this down in a short list of bullet points that you can give to the doctor when you are trying to explain your problem. The doctor does not want to read an essay, limit yourself to one side of A4 as an absolute limit.

    The Catch-22 of autism is that we have problems communicating and are liable to fail to be coherent in the consulting room. We therefore struggle to communicate the problem to the GP.

    The coffee noise intolerance may indicate stress. I am aware that most of the time the noise doesn't bother me but I suspect that my sensitivity is worse if I am on edge or stressed about something. As a practical intervention you could consider using noise cancelling earphones (I use an in-ear style that just looks like normal ear buds)

    has everybody on this thread done the free online test at aspergerstest.net/.../ ? This is a reliable indicator and some GPs will take the hint when presented with the results of the test.

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  • Former Member
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    Hi Java (and everyone else who has contributed to this)

    There have been a couple of other threads ongoing that have tackled this thorny issue.

    If you cannot carry out the "normal" activities of daily life then you should consider diagnosis with a view to some intervention that may help you cope with things better.

    Example,

    1. if you can't manage to go into a coffee shop because of the noise of the espresso machines then this is a real problem that needs addressing. I know exactly how this feels and was wondering if coffee machines were getting louder but no, I was getting more sensitive.

    2. If you can't manage to maintain good relations at work. Major friction between you and your manager is a real issue that, if not tackled, will lead to you walking out and looking for another job.

    Both of these are entirely big enough problems to warrant intervention by the NHS. The government does not want people to be falling out of employment and creating conflict and tension. Nobody wants people to be going round in a state of fear and anxiety about doing the normal activities like shopping and looking after themselves.

    If you go to your GP then you need to make a coherent and clear case with two very separate elements

    A) What problems you are having.

    B) Why you think that autism is the root cause.

    It is a good idea to write this down in a short list of bullet points that you can give to the doctor when you are trying to explain your problem. The doctor does not want to read an essay, limit yourself to one side of A4 as an absolute limit.

    The Catch-22 of autism is that we have problems communicating and are liable to fail to be coherent in the consulting room. We therefore struggle to communicate the problem to the GP.

    The coffee noise intolerance may indicate stress. I am aware that most of the time the noise doesn't bother me but I suspect that my sensitivity is worse if I am on edge or stressed about something. As a practical intervention you could consider using noise cancelling earphones (I use an in-ear style that just looks like normal ear buds)

    has everybody on this thread done the free online test at aspergerstest.net/.../ ? This is a reliable indicator and some GPs will take the hint when presented with the results of the test.

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