Not Autisitic enough

Hi Everyone

i have just been for an assessment at the Nhs centre in Sheffield. I comcluded a session of 2 hours of assessment mainly verbally asking me questions and at the end of it I was informed that had I been assessed as a child then I would of got an ADOs test. It was explained that whilst I have many Autistic traits then this is not enough to warrant an ADOS test, which feels a bit like telling someone with 1 leg that can't be provided with a wheelchair unless they have no legs.

i went because I had an idea after my son was diagnosed and I also think my dad has had it for years, given I now know quite a lot about the condition. I racked my brain back to my childhood and now present day and I am clearly Autistic, but clearly the view is that if you are not Autistic enough then basically you can't get the same support Which is very fustrating for me. I was further told that basically I had adapted through learnt behaviour and that I found strategies and routines in my life that suit my situation and by default I have indirectly protected myself in some ways. When I basically explainer at the end  of how I could be defined with Aufistic traits, yet effectively not be Autistic enough it was positioned with me that 'The reason I taken this literal view was based on my Austism'.

So basically, I am just sharing this with this network to look for other people's experience where they may feel let down by the process to gain an ADOS test and the relevant support.

Thanks for listening and appreciate any feedback.

Al

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  • Even when you had the diagnosis you were hoping for there is n magic wand being waved. You don't instantly feel better.  Well you do on a level because you know you not imagining it - but it don't change things.

    There is nothing whatsoever stopping you from getting hold of the books appropriate to your need and telling your friends you are undiagnoses Autism.....

    You still put all the hours in for nothing, in getting to know yourself and find better ways of coping or in my case people who care when you are not coping.....

    It easy to say as I was happy at my diagnosis.  But we do forget the real matter here. If you are not happy then go back to the GP and see what else there may be support for you take a list of things in with you to explain what you are not coping at.

    Though I do add that point well if you are coping you are not autistic... doesn't seem helpful at all.

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  • Even when you had the diagnosis you were hoping for there is n magic wand being waved. You don't instantly feel better.  Well you do on a level because you know you not imagining it - but it don't change things.

    There is nothing whatsoever stopping you from getting hold of the books appropriate to your need and telling your friends you are undiagnoses Autism.....

    You still put all the hours in for nothing, in getting to know yourself and find better ways of coping or in my case people who care when you are not coping.....

    It easy to say as I was happy at my diagnosis.  But we do forget the real matter here. If you are not happy then go back to the GP and see what else there may be support for you take a list of things in with you to explain what you are not coping at.

    Though I do add that point well if you are coping you are not autistic... doesn't seem helpful at all.

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