Not Autisitic enough

Hi Everyone

i have just been for an assessment at the Nhs centre in Sheffield. I comcluded a session of 2 hours of assessment mainly verbally asking me questions and at the end of it I was informed that had I been assessed as a child then I would of got an ADOs test. It was explained that whilst I have many Autistic traits then this is not enough to warrant an ADOS test, which feels a bit like telling someone with 1 leg that can't be provided with a wheelchair unless they have no legs.

i went because I had an idea after my son was diagnosed and I also think my dad has had it for years, given I now know quite a lot about the condition. I racked my brain back to my childhood and now present day and I am clearly Autistic, but clearly the view is that if you are not Autistic enough then basically you can't get the same support Which is very fustrating for me. I was further told that basically I had adapted through learnt behaviour and that I found strategies and routines in my life that suit my situation and by default I have indirectly protected myself in some ways. When I basically explainer at the end  of how I could be defined with Aufistic traits, yet effectively not be Autistic enough it was positioned with me that 'The reason I taken this literal view was based on my Austism'.

So basically, I am just sharing this with this network to look for other people's experience where they may feel let down by the process to gain an ADOS test and the relevant support.

Thanks for listening and appreciate any feedback.

Al

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  • hi recombinantsocks

    I agree with you, and she should have had counselling or CBT but the GP referred her back to the mental health team twice to try to get them to see her again but they wouldn't. She was so depressed and anxious and has GCSEs coming up so low dose medication was the only thing to try as a last resort. Every day I give her a 'pep talk' before she reluctantly heads off to school or I walk to school with her to keep her spirits up.

    I am hoping having a diagnosis will be of more help when she goes to college as the college has a learning suport team.

    I find this site has some useful information especially the input from members such as yourself.  Thank you.

    and I'd say to Al too, if there are any other mental issues, then keep on at your GP to try and get help such as counselling too.

    all the best to you.

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  • hi recombinantsocks

    I agree with you, and she should have had counselling or CBT but the GP referred her back to the mental health team twice to try to get them to see her again but they wouldn't. She was so depressed and anxious and has GCSEs coming up so low dose medication was the only thing to try as a last resort. Every day I give her a 'pep talk' before she reluctantly heads off to school or I walk to school with her to keep her spirits up.

    I am hoping having a diagnosis will be of more help when she goes to college as the college has a learning suport team.

    I find this site has some useful information especially the input from members such as yourself.  Thank you.

    and I'd say to Al too, if there are any other mental issues, then keep on at your GP to try and get help such as counselling too.

    all the best to you.

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