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Counselling - Looking for some advice

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Hi,

In another discussed with Rob3d, he mentioned that his autism team gave him the option of some counsueling. I was surprised, as my autism team have told me they don't provide any counsueling.

I have been trying to get some for nearly a year, and just seem to be pushed between different people. I have a brief session of counsueling last year which was extremely helpful. Have been trying to access that again, but they have given me two messages. One stating they do not want to work with me because my needs are too complex. The other one stating they wanted to wait until my diagnosis until considering future work. Recent contact attempts have resulted in no response.

I don't understand why my autism team does not provide counsueling when other's teams seem to offer it. 

I would appreciate any advise. I have been back to my GP, twice, who keep referring me back to either my autism team, or the other team who have said they dont want to work with me

The diagnosis was very hard on me, and I mentioned in the interviews I would need some counsuelling to help me get through. I am just finding life getting increasingly difficult, I cant cope. I have told work, who said they would provide support, but nothing has materialised. I just feel totally lost

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  • Hi

    I cannot give advice but wanted to say that I find myself in the same position. I would find some counselling or mentoring very useful but none is available,

    Even if go private there is no one with experience and training in counselling autistic people in my area.To go to a counsellor with no experience in this would be like sending a diesel car to a garage that only knew about petrol engines. My workplace funds an external counselling scheme but because I said I was autistic they referred me to a mental health nurse instead.

    Like you I struggled to come to terms with a late diagnosis but I found help in the form of a local group which supports HFA adults. What really helped was meeting other people like myself and finding that with them there are no communication issues and no need to explain or conceal bit of myself.

    My situation at work is difficult and I have sought help from Access to Work. They are funding a worksplace assessment by the NAS but my attempts to get any mentoring or counselling have failed. The man assigned to my case said he could do it. I was sceptical but all faith in him flew out the window when I asked about handling a difficult situation and he told me just to be diplomatic. Like asking a dog to juggle.

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  • Hi

    I cannot give advice but wanted to say that I find myself in the same position. I would find some counselling or mentoring very useful but none is available,

    Even if go private there is no one with experience and training in counselling autistic people in my area.To go to a counsellor with no experience in this would be like sending a diesel car to a garage that only knew about petrol engines. My workplace funds an external counselling scheme but because I said I was autistic they referred me to a mental health nurse instead.

    Like you I struggled to come to terms with a late diagnosis but I found help in the form of a local group which supports HFA adults. What really helped was meeting other people like myself and finding that with them there are no communication issues and no need to explain or conceal bit of myself.

    My situation at work is difficult and I have sought help from Access to Work. They are funding a worksplace assessment by the NAS but my attempts to get any mentoring or counselling have failed. The man assigned to my case said he could do it. I was sceptical but all faith in him flew out the window when I asked about handling a difficult situation and he told me just to be diplomatic. Like asking a dog to juggle.

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