can some one please point me in the right direction. my 9 yr old son is struggling with every day life i have been taking him to a child peaditrition since he was 2. they just keep saying he has language problems and has autistic tendancys but doesnt warrant eneough to have an ados assesment all because he doesnt have behavioral problems at school. although he is in a special group for reading and english has he is in yr 4 but only just finishing level 1. he suffers out bursts and struggles so much at home. can he have a form of autism even if he doesnt struggle in school with his behavior?