stressed out!!

james under pead to be assessed for autism, last year didnt meet criteria but does have autism traits_--So had James taff meeting at school, got peads coming out in 2 weeks to see James than see will make her mind up to see if she gonna reassess James for autism, why doesn't everything batter your head for, he's been trying to play with other kids but he daren't do it, but been playing along side kids and on his own, even got very upset coz  he couldn't use scissors etc, I keep thinking they got gonna diagnose him and just say he's ok, but good thing is he has a friend a lad he knows from nursery, he has been helping James which is great, I feel sorry for James as he still in pull ups I now only has to change him once a day now as they gonna change him on morning for me, but today James got ready for pe he took shorts down and other kids noticed he had pull ups on and started to comment on it, as his teacher told me I felt abit sad about it, he shouldn't have to change in the toilets,