DSM-5 diagnosis - was it handled properly?

Yesterday we received the formal diagnosis of ASD for my 5 year old son. 

The paediatrician had called a multi-professional meeting at his school then asked my son's mum and me to come along an hour later to be told the findings. 

When we were shown into the room, the head teacher and my son's learning support assistant were also there. I like them both and get on well with them, but I did think it was rather inappropriate for the paediatrician to tell us our son has ASD in front of two school members of staff. 

The NICE guidelines say: 

1.8.1      After the autism diagnostic assessment discuss the findings, including the profile, sensitively, in person and without delay with the parents or carers and, if appropriate, the child or young person. Explain the basis of conclusions even if the diagnosis of autism was not reached. 

1.8.2      Use recognised good practice when sharing a diagnosis with parents, carers, children and young people. 

First they went through each of the DSM-5 diagnostic criteria explaining whether or not my son met each criterion and only on conclusion told us of the diagnosis. 

Though I was expecting to be told my son was on the spectrum I do think it could have been handled more sensitively by being in private and telling us at the start what the diagnosis is followed by an explanation of why. 

I understand that DSM-5 splits ASD into three levels. I asked which level my son was on (I suspect level 2) and was told they do not make the diagnoses on that basis. They explained that diagnosis a DSM-5 level was elective (at their discretion apparently) and about 90% of clinicians in the UK do not indicate a level in their diagnoses.

I would appreciate views, information and any references as to whether or not indicating a level is indeed discretionary in DSM-5 and whether it is really true such a high proportion of clinicians do not provide a level in their diagnosis. 

Many thanks.

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  • Can I ask you a question and he may well be only 5 year old in your own eyes, but was he present at his diagnosis?

    I think it an advantageous other professioanls were present because they know first hard all round difficulties.

    May be you trying to look into it too deeply in determining the levels etc? Is this going to help you help your son is what I mean?  How will this benefit him through the support?

    At my diagnosis just last year I was given all the DM5 information too which was not important to me. What I needed to know was that am I autistic or asperges and that didn't matter which one. It a name that I can comprehend and pass onto people to help me and understand when there is something upsetting me they may otherwise questionwhy has something that trivial getting to me, instead they can help me feel better by explaining those blocks for me when they occur.  I didn't need to know the whole package and I don't think neither do people in our every day life. Too much information can be not helpful.

    I hope you can now relax a little about the welfare for your son and at 5 years old he can you can all enjoy a full life together going about some things may be an individual way at times. 

    names and letters of diagnosis do not alter anything in that it how the people around us really help us to intergrate and be there when we come across our own difficulties. I just had one tiny one this morning in Church. One hymn wasn't sung and asked at end so we not singing that one then. A year ago in a different Church it would have been met with sarcasm. Today the Deacon just answered my question calmly and the panic feeling vanished. So different when they know autism and that all what most need to know. (PS am not that young either)

    Hope you don't think am being flippant or anything with you in this post but your son has the diagnosis what needed and shows the school is caring enough to want to be part of it all.

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  • Can I ask you a question and he may well be only 5 year old in your own eyes, but was he present at his diagnosis?

    I think it an advantageous other professioanls were present because they know first hard all round difficulties.

    May be you trying to look into it too deeply in determining the levels etc? Is this going to help you help your son is what I mean?  How will this benefit him through the support?

    At my diagnosis just last year I was given all the DM5 information too which was not important to me. What I needed to know was that am I autistic or asperges and that didn't matter which one. It a name that I can comprehend and pass onto people to help me and understand when there is something upsetting me they may otherwise questionwhy has something that trivial getting to me, instead they can help me feel better by explaining those blocks for me when they occur.  I didn't need to know the whole package and I don't think neither do people in our every day life. Too much information can be not helpful.

    I hope you can now relax a little about the welfare for your son and at 5 years old he can you can all enjoy a full life together going about some things may be an individual way at times. 

    names and letters of diagnosis do not alter anything in that it how the people around us really help us to intergrate and be there when we come across our own difficulties. I just had one tiny one this morning in Church. One hymn wasn't sung and asked at end so we not singing that one then. A year ago in a different Church it would have been met with sarcasm. Today the Deacon just answered my question calmly and the panic feeling vanished. So different when they know autism and that all what most need to know. (PS am not that young either)

    Hope you don't think am being flippant or anything with you in this post but your son has the diagnosis what needed and shows the school is caring enough to want to be part of it all.

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