Adult daughter refuses diagnosis

Hi to everyone in this group from myself and my wife. We have a 21 year old daughter who we believe to be on the ASD, probably Asperger’s, she is not diagnosed and refuses to see the GP. During her school life she had a SEN statement and received teaching support for moderate learning difficulties.

Since finishing FE College at 19 she has stayed living with us but her ASD traits seem to be evolving into a more confrontational approach to anyone who tries to help her. She stays in her bedroom most of the day and seems to think we are shouting at her just by asking her a question. This creates a vicious circle of increased isolation as we are reluctant to engage with her due to the unpredictable responses.

We would be grateful if anyone in the forum would be able to advise us regarding the way forward so that we can help her to make the most of what abilities she has and minimise the increasingly negative aspects of her behaviour.

We are in the Merseyside area,thank you.

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  • Hi your situation is very similar to mine. My daughter is now 23 and has similar traits whereby if anyone questions her about something that she has already said she starts shouting that nobody ever listens to her and stomps up to her room, slamming the door and talking to herself saying things like, nobody cares and why do I bother coming home. She has been manipulated by a number of people already in her life and is currently being controlled by someone at work.

    I'm interested to learn how you have progressed over the past 3 years.

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  • Hi your situation is very similar to mine. My daughter is now 23 and has similar traits whereby if anyone questions her about something that she has already said she starts shouting that nobody ever listens to her and stomps up to her room, slamming the door and talking to herself saying things like, nobody cares and why do I bother coming home. She has been manipulated by a number of people already in her life and is currently being controlled by someone at work.

    I'm interested to learn how you have progressed over the past 3 years.

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