DON'T KNOW WHERE TO TURN AND SCARED !!

Hi , over the past 2 years we have been through a very hard time with Social Services . Since both my children were very young we have had issues behavioural , educational , self harm, foodCry and social. The children were being assessed for A.S.D when Social Services got involved falsely accusing us of Fabricated Induced Illness and as I have Depression also accusing me of having Munchausen's Syndrome . We are now fully finished with Social Services as the social worker was found to be incompetent and our doctor , who was the Safeguarding Officer , wrote a letter stating that we hadn't made anything up .

The assessment concluded with both children having A.S.D. traits but not enough for a diagnosis. The issues with the children are getting worse and they are struggling with life ( our son mainly but sometimes our daughter ) and the problem is we don't know where to turn ,I trust our doctor but after all that has happened my husband and I are scared as we don't want Social Services involved again . What can we do , where can we go I only want a diagnosis so that we can get the help and support that our childen need . Our family is broken and we don't know how to fix it , I can't even talk to the school because of the same reason .
Please can someone give us some advice , I was going to phone the Autism Helpline but i'm scared of doing that too.i just wish that someone would believe us and help

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  • I wouldn't be scared of them ppl ,just ask for different one,to be honest I waiting for dignosis for my 6 yr old boy who's really aggressive,and the only way there seen the true picture is to come in my home so every morning I allowed all different ppl from camhs and there have all there need to no he has autism but to be honest I had to let my home be open to loads like salt pycholist ,school social worker's,which have just started cause I've asked foe them as I thought ,I might as well get all the help dntdont be scared of them you've proved you've got nowt to hide x

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  • I wouldn't be scared of them ppl ,just ask for different one,to be honest I waiting for dignosis for my 6 yr old boy who's really aggressive,and the only way there seen the true picture is to come in my home so every morning I allowed all different ppl from camhs and there have all there need to no he has autism but to be honest I had to let my home be open to loads like salt pycholist ,school social worker's,which have just started cause I've asked foe them as I thought ,I might as well get all the help dntdont be scared of them you've proved you've got nowt to hide x

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