Problems with constipation and toilet use

Hi

I've been suffering bouts of what I think is constipation recently. It's been and off for a while and affects me both at home and when I have been in the office. My GP initially thought I had irritable bowel syndrome after medical tests ruled out more sinister possibilities. But I don't really get pain, just discomfort. From what I've read, it's probably 'functional' or chronic constipation and is largely affected by stress and anxiety which I have suffered from a lot in recent years due to issues at home and at work.

I have just been diagnosed as autistic in the last week and from what I've read, there may be a connection between my autism and my toilet problems.

I have been seeing a counsellor and he suggested I may be hyper focussing on my bowel/bodily sensations. I often have difficulty knowing whether I'm about to pass wind or need to pass a stool. When I get to the toilet, it's often just wind but my fear/anxiety is that I will poo myself and that in itself can lead to stool withholding temporarily. I wear incontinence pants most of the time for protection. I usually end up passing a stool at least once day, sometimes more but I need to relax more and not overthink it! I'm also taking a herbal tablet to help with the anxiety which does a bit with overall anxiety.

Sorry if this is rather long. It's a little embarrassing writing such personal information.

Does anyone else have these issues?

 

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  • And I forgot to mention my nephew …


    Whilst not diagnosed we are 90% sure he is autistic. When he was younger he complained often of tummy and bowel pains. Talking to his mum its possible that he was mistaking the sensations with just actually being full. He has ended up with a very restricted diet in I think an attempt to avoid these sensations. Now at uni Im fairly sure he is losing weight away from the security of home and especially his mum. 

    Ths may not be relevant Shrugfemale sign️ 

    Alice

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  • And I forgot to mention my nephew …


    Whilst not diagnosed we are 90% sure he is autistic. When he was younger he complained often of tummy and bowel pains. Talking to his mum its possible that he was mistaking the sensations with just actually being full. He has ended up with a very restricted diet in I think an attempt to avoid these sensations. Now at uni Im fairly sure he is losing weight away from the security of home and especially his mum. 

    Ths may not be relevant Shrugfemale sign️ 

    Alice

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