Struggling to find a private practitioner

Hi,

I've chosen to pursue the route of private diagnosis for various reasons.

I've read around this community extensively and have found the advice and resources to be very useful. I've tried to shortlist practitioners in my area from the BPS but 1/6 actually picked up, and she wasn't a registered clinical psychologist or psychiatrist and unable to diagnose.

Can anyone help to point me in the direction of a practitioner on Beds, Herts, Cambs or Northants? Or even Bucks? Or central London. I work in central London and currently live in Beds.

As an aside, after speaking to me for approximately 1 minute, she commented 'well your communication skills are really rather good, so I'm not sure if I would be worried if I was you.. I mean that's one of the things, communication.' I felt utterly belitted - she doesn't me or know why, at nearly 27, I have come to the conclusion to pursue diagnosis. This sort of thing makes me quite afraid about encountering a practitioner who does not delve beneath the surface. Yes, my rational, intellectual communication skills are exceptionally good - everyone has a skill, and I've made a career out of mind. But to imply that means I don't have Asperger's? Unbelievable. I've also benfited from an exceptionally patient mother who spent my childhood explaining and explaining and explaining things to me, again and again. I fear this makes me a particularly difficult case to 'spot' but I have many reasons to believe I do have it.

Thank you

Steph

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Just a thought,

    when you were complimented for your communication skills did you mistake the intent of the comment? Perhaps they were being polite and wanting to put you at your ease? It wouldn't be the first time that an aspie took offence or mistook someones innocent compliment.

    i ended up getting a private opinion (local Priory hospital)because of the queues in the nhs. my nhs GP did the private referral and found a suitable place to go. It was quite painless and has had the anticpated benefits so i can recommend this route although obviously it isn't the cheapest thing to do.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Just a thought,

    when you were complimented for your communication skills did you mistake the intent of the comment? Perhaps they were being polite and wanting to put you at your ease? It wouldn't be the first time that an aspie took offence or mistook someones innocent compliment.

    i ended up getting a private opinion (local Priory hospital)because of the queues in the nhs. my nhs GP did the private referral and found a suitable place to go. It was quite painless and has had the anticpated benefits so i can recommend this route although obviously it isn't the cheapest thing to do.

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