diet lifestlye bullying and abuse

I had an old aquaintence who was rather keen on looking good in a T-Shirt but not overly concerned with positive healthy lifestyle choices, he would spend many an hour lifting heavy objects inthe gymnasium but seemed to neglect his warm ups stretches cardio cool downs and stretch off's and as for diet as far as i was in formed he always placed his nob of cheese just before his plums and grapes, but weather or not he actuallky had his orange with a suitable breakfast and distanced his apple and other malic acid foods from his dairy and oats by having them with his evening meal i never did find out, one thing i do know however is that people tend to focus on what they think others are doing wrong before they will even attempt to identify if what they do is wrong then if and when you stop doing what they percieved to be the problem and they realise that it was only part of the problem and a very small part which they obsessed over and focused on using excuses like we can't help you whilst you're doing that and they then realise that they were just pretending they had the ability or inclination to help so that they could keep their paied positions and that why a lot of patients suffer and are prevented from accessing the appropriate health care, the referals and complaints system is manipulated to hide patients who have been mistreated bullied and abused by staff members who are unable inadiquate irrisponsible and dangerous.

When the diet and lifestlye planning and advice is required and would work its never delivered and every effort to prevent the patients who require it from accessing it is made and that is crulty that results in suffering for no justifyable reason, which indicates a culture of abuse has developed and been encouraged, normalised within teams and justified between closed groupes of staff members.

I am a victim of abuse not a perpotrator.   

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  • Dear StUrungusPolyp,

    Take a breath.  Breathe.

    There are some folks here (less than previously,) who HEAR you.  We don't necessarily need to agree with what you say/your special interest (in your case = dietary matters? perhaps?), nor even choose to interact with your posts.  That doesn't mean anything (in my opinion.)  Stay calm, carry on, do what you do and do what you feel you want to do, and see what happens.

    TheCatWoman has no idea WTAF I am ever saying either.  I am confident that TheCatWoman is us.  Relax.

    Warm regards to you.

    Me.

  • ok people with adhd crave all of the wrong things to provide them with mental and physical energy, adhd is a very common co-occuring or co-morbid condition in people on the autistic spectrum and

    [content in breach of Rule 6 "No medical or legal advice" removed by moderators]

    I am kind caring considerate intelligent socially responsible mature adult human being, i am not daft......well not like a brush is daft anyway ahhhh nerrrrrr ( imagine i have gone bozeyed for a brief moment ) 

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  • ok people with adhd crave all of the wrong things to provide them with mental and physical energy, adhd is a very common co-occuring or co-morbid condition in people on the autistic spectrum and

    [content in breach of Rule 6 "No medical or legal advice" removed by moderators]

    I am kind caring considerate intelligent socially responsible mature adult human being, i am not daft......well not like a brush is daft anyway ahhhh nerrrrrr ( imagine i have gone bozeyed for a brief moment ) 

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  • these rules normally result in oversensorship but on a platform such as this where there are many diffrent people all at varying ages, levels of ability and many with differing sensory issues and communication issues that are not to be cosidered simply verbal communication or difficulties reading or displaying mood, emotions and other visual ques via body language but also communication between the sensory organs taste touch smell sound sight the brain and the rest of the central nervous system then i guess it is justifiable, i am aperson who can and does make every effort to forgive but i can not forget. 

    I think if a short set of movie clips are made as a NAS project to encourage fun and for people to laugh at themselves as well as promoting awarness of eating dissorders and body image produced where a person walks up to the mirror leans in close to begin putting on lipstick or applying spot cream then a figgur appears next to them that reprisents Billy Wind starts to giggle mischeviously as he lightly blows onto the person, then the image flickers and the person looking in the mirror is waring a super hero or heroin caped costume and when they finally turn to a front view the letter on the costume is a B and they have become cross eyed, they then say a line of dialogue like "i am autistic" or "i have asd" or "i'm aspergers i got too close to the mirror and now i am Bozbecozovit" might help some people.

  • my communication difficulties were and are minimal in fact I'm a very good communicator,

    In the spirit of helping you continue to improve your communication I think I would echo others comments on your recent threads that using grammar to break up your blocks of text would go a long way to making it easier to read. 

    You do this some times so you have the ability.

    The benefit is that it lets people proces in info in chunks - a bit like courses in a meal. Put everyting together at once and it becomes overwhelming for us and your message is lost as we skip over it.

    Please note this is not an attack, just a note to help you get your message across better since you are clearly passionate, have researched your subject and want to share with others.

    I think where the moderators have intervened is where you are directing people to eat a certain way. This is being considered as medical advice in some cases. In reality there can be many complicating factors, especially for autists and gastric issues, so the mods erred on the side of caution and removed your advice.

    Had you stated that this is the approach you use and it has helped you then it would have been ok. It was the directing others to do the same that crossed the line - in my opinion.

    Please do not stop posting however, just consider the rules and construct the posts in a way that is explaining how it works for you and let others decide if they want to consider it for themselves.

  • What has been done TOO me would not meet with any persons approval, i was accessed correctly and my communication difficulties were and are minimal in fact I'm a very good communicator, and it's when people understand how to engage in a efficient effective positive proactive manner, and allow others to be informed and aware so they can plan and be prepared is when it becomes identifiable that there are others who also understand what causes or worsens communication issues and when the importance of consistency, continuity, stability and structure is recievd and understood then prioritising, delivering and receving the appropriate health care in the appropriate way to meet the needs of the target demographic which is the diagnosed or accessed patients can be achieved, but until heath care is being delivered in the interests of the patients it remains insuffcent and inadequate, health care should not be a punishment and attempting to accsess heath care shood be looked at as a mature level headed socially responsible thing to do, and that is what i have done and i continue to do so for the afformentioned reasons. What i am saying is any of my percieved communication difficulties are manufactured and a false reprisentation of my true condition and a deterioration inmy heath and ability that is identifiable resolvable and should not be presnt, i am suffering and i shouldn't be, there is no purpose or value in watching or allowing people to suffer.

  • Although it is INEVITABLE that your censored/edited text above "may have influenced" and may even have been an "attempt to influence" readers - I certainly saw no MEDICAL ADVICE in your opinion and commentary text that has now been deleted.

    Naturally, my opinion means nothing on this matter but I thought you may find it reassuring to know my opinion.

    Perhaps Rule 6 needs amendment.....based on what has happened here.....so people can actually understand what is allowed here these days?

    EXISTING RULE 6 = Do not offer medical or legal advice. Always seek professional help for these matters. Treat any medical or legal information shared as the opinion of the user who posted it and meant for general discussion purposes only. 

    DEFACTO RULE 6 = Do not post anything that may influence, or is an attempt to influence, anyone regarding medical or legal matters.

    Crazy times - crazy direction of travel !

  • Hi StUrungusPolyp 

    Your post has been edited to remove comments which go beyond the sharing personal experience and are an attempt to influence others’ medical decisions. This breaches Rule 6: No medical or legal advice.

    We would like to remind you to follow the rules of the community, including in particular rule 6.

    Many thanks

    Sharon Mod

  • FYI....I understand what you say here....and can agree with what you say here....based on my interpretation of what you have said here above.  However, that should not, (nor should ever be implied to mean that) what you say (generaly here), nor/and how you choose to say it here, meets with my general approval.

    Guess what.....I have communication difficulties!

    With respect

    Number.