Stimming whilst in a hospital bed?

This may be a strange request, but I'm stuck in a hospital bed connected to oxygen. My day to day stim is to scratch my head or fiddling with my hair, when more agitated I will rock, bounce my feet or flap the hand. Unfortunately the other night I was also on a drip and couldn't easily get out of bed. At about 3am the nurses appeared to take an arterial blood sample from the wrist. I also happen to be super needle phobic, so got very agitated. It turns out that this type of test is much more painful than the conventional ones, to the extent they had to hold me down. As you might imagine I went into a bit of a meltdown after, but couldn't really find any comfort in the usual stims when in bed . Can anyone suggest something that might be soothing in that situation?

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  • Bit of an update. Had a similar experience last night, with out warning I was woken in the small hours by a lady in all black including some head dress, wanting to too do another arterial blood test (a very painful procedure. This time I got super agitated and refused the procedure. So early in the morning and all in black it felt like the Grim Reaper had appeared. Unfortunately I had a bit of a meltdown and the nurses tried to calm me and keep me still. Obviously stopping me stimming had the complete opposite reaction to what they desired. I ended up rocking on the bed until morning when my wife arrived. We had combined chat with the day sister, explaining about stimming. She wanted to get my blood oxygen up and was amazed that I achieved this by tapping my whole leg whist doing an evil sudoku. My wife phoned the Learning Disability and Autism lead to explain what had happened. He the emailed the Matron who then paid us a visit. She was super nice, very understanding and much more aware of stimming. The outcome was the staff were all briefed and a review/ update of the training staff received. My wife has also order me some more fidget toys to see if they might help. Thanks for all your input and support Grinning

  • Pleased to hear your update - a good effort by all involved. 

    Hope the remainder of your hospital visit proves to be a more manageable experience.

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