hypersensitivity to noise

My 10 year old is very sensitive to noise, which can make working in a noisy classroom difficult, and today made a school trip to the panto very stressful for both of us - we had to leave.

Has anyone got any ideas about how to deal with this problem, which i fear is goin to be harder to cope with at secondary school?

 

Would earplugs help in places like the pantomime?

  • Some noise bothers me, but I am not as affected by it as some people with AS. Sensory issues are not the dominant issue with me. At the asperger group I attend, I do not like the noise of the heater. But I am not bothered by building work noise coming from outside. However, the same building work noise bothers me when I am in my own space at home, particularly when I am reading. Noise mainly bothers me when I am trying to concentrate on something. I cannot read with people talking around me, for example, and I can only read in my bedroom. I can't read silently without getting distracted, I have to whisper aloud the words.

  • Because my experience of this is quite manageable most of the time, I tend to analyse situations where I'm uncomfortable by listening to see if I can distinguish the key irritants from less problemmatic background. I've found, mentioned in another post, that turning my head or positioning myself differently can reduce the impact, though this isn't practical when walking.

    The thing that really has puzzled me is that I do manage to "switch off" uncomfortable sound for a while. It then comes back "on" very suddenly.  That sudden awareness can be alarming and annoying.  So I can be quite unaware of any problem at all then whatever it is suddenly hits.

  • and I experience all of the sensations at the same time.

    So I avoid crowd situations and try to prevent or circumvent anything that may set off a sensory overload.

    Also some sounds, e.g. bus brakes and emergency sirens, make me aggressive and I have to tell myself to relax, which takes a while before I can recover and continue on my way.

    My parents felt that I should experience the world in the way that the world is/was (1950s) but with plenty of space and quiet areas.

    Class sizes were always small and I did not have to cope with a large school until I went to Technical College at 15, which got me ready for my time in the army (12 years).

  • Thank you everyone! We will try out the ideas and see which w prefers.

  • Hello,

    We got some musicians ear plugs for our eldest, the only downside is that they didn't at the time make them for young children so they didn't stay in very well, but they were effective. They differ from normal ear plugs by muting all sounds rather than blocking all/certain sounds. ÂŁ10/pair so quite expensive. 

  • Hi, we get them online, they are no longer stocked by the UK supplier I used to get them from, and come from the USA.

    Not sure if allowed to post link - http://www.earplugsonline.com/ 

    Melly

  • Hi Melly

    Those ear plugs sound like a great idea. My son can't wear the usual ear defenders because he is sensitive to touch as well. Where did you get them from?

  • Hi, S has tried out ear defenders at school, but not really taken to them. He prefers earphones and music in some environments and earplugs in others. The earplugs he prefers are like putty and can be softened and popped into the ears. He carries them in his pocket and inserts them when needed.

    Melly

  • When we go out anywhere I tend to have in my bag mp3 player with headphones on it and also Nintendo DS which headphones can be plugged into.  This has saved us a number of times.  Sometimes just to muffle the noise slightly.

    xxx

     

  • I know a fair few autistic children who wear ear defenders, but some don't want silence, they want noise they are in control of so with them an Mp3 player is better.