How important is a diagnostic label for children?

Hi

I have a child with Asperger's Syndrome.  For us and for him this getting a diagnosis was important as it helped us have a clearer understanding of our son and for him it made him feel less alone.  He told us a few years later that he had felt lonely because he was different from everyone else.  After diagnosis he felt that he was not on his own anymore. 

I only ask this question as I wanted to see if we were alone in feeling that diagnosis was important for children.  I have had conversations recently from people within various professions who have questioned the necessity for getting a diagnostic label as it can be damaging to the child's future, possibly putting limitations on them.

I understand the arguments for not needlessly labelling children and my feeling is that if their condition, whatever it is, is having an affect on their life then it is necessary to get a dianosis so that there is a clear understanding as to why they are having these difficulties and so that support can be more easily directed to meet their needs.

In the ideal world there would be no need for a diagnosis of anything as children would have their needs met on an indivualised basis but unfortunately we do not seem to be anywhere near living in this world.

Let me know your views and opinions.  I welcome comments on either side of the argument.

 

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  • The diagnosis was important to me as it meant for me personally that i wasnt completely useless as a parent and there was a reason for the way my son behaved and there wasnt anything without help and statagies that i could have done to prevent it.

    My son is now 13 and it has been a long complex battle of meetings and tantrums (not just from him lol) to have gotten his diagnosis and the help he needed especially in school.

    My daughter is almost 9 and we just got her aspergers diagnosis on monday, and now im all geared up for round 2 of battles to make sure she gets the help and support she needs, i made my mistakes the first time around now i know what her rights are i wont make the same mistakes again,

    The diagnosis may be a "label" but that label opens alot more doors than no diagnosis so its got to be a benefit to the child in the long run,

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  • The diagnosis was important to me as it meant for me personally that i wasnt completely useless as a parent and there was a reason for the way my son behaved and there wasnt anything without help and statagies that i could have done to prevent it.

    My son is now 13 and it has been a long complex battle of meetings and tantrums (not just from him lol) to have gotten his diagnosis and the help he needed especially in school.

    My daughter is almost 9 and we just got her aspergers diagnosis on monday, and now im all geared up for round 2 of battles to make sure she gets the help and support she needs, i made my mistakes the first time around now i know what her rights are i wont make the same mistakes again,

    The diagnosis may be a "label" but that label opens alot more doors than no diagnosis so its got to be a benefit to the child in the long run,

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