How important is a diagnostic label for children?

Hi

I have a child with Asperger's Syndrome.  For us and for him this getting a diagnosis was important as it helped us have a clearer understanding of our son and for him it made him feel less alone.  He told us a few years later that he had felt lonely because he was different from everyone else.  After diagnosis he felt that he was not on his own anymore. 

I only ask this question as I wanted to see if we were alone in feeling that diagnosis was important for children.  I have had conversations recently from people within various professions who have questioned the necessity for getting a diagnostic label as it can be damaging to the child's future, possibly putting limitations on them.

I understand the arguments for not needlessly labelling children and my feeling is that if their condition, whatever it is, is having an affect on their life then it is necessary to get a dianosis so that there is a clear understanding as to why they are having these difficulties and so that support can be more easily directed to meet their needs.

In the ideal world there would be no need for a diagnosis of anything as children would have their needs met on an indivualised basis but unfortunately we do not seem to be anywhere near living in this world.

Let me know your views and opinions.  I welcome comments on either side of the argument.

 

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  • I felt a diagnosis was important, my son who is 5 was diagnosed in march this year and has already started to notice differences in himself. I found it a lot easier to explain to him why after he was diagnosed and also to point out all the positive qualities of having aspergers to him...such as knowing more about disney pixar cars than anyone I have ever met ;)

     

    I also have to admit that it has made life easier for me, we had experienced a lot of hostility from parents at Alexs school as his meltdowns are often aggressive. Because I am now able to say, look this is what it is I have found people to be a lot more accepting. The school have also helped with this by doing circle times focusing on autism and how lucky they are to have Alex in their class. (Incidentally the children have never been anything other than amazing despite Alex not being the easiest of people to get on with at times!)

     

    I think getting a diagnosis for our family has been very positive but that it is definitely based on person to person.

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  • I felt a diagnosis was important, my son who is 5 was diagnosed in march this year and has already started to notice differences in himself. I found it a lot easier to explain to him why after he was diagnosed and also to point out all the positive qualities of having aspergers to him...such as knowing more about disney pixar cars than anyone I have ever met ;)

     

    I also have to admit that it has made life easier for me, we had experienced a lot of hostility from parents at Alexs school as his meltdowns are often aggressive. Because I am now able to say, look this is what it is I have found people to be a lot more accepting. The school have also helped with this by doing circle times focusing on autism and how lucky they are to have Alex in their class. (Incidentally the children have never been anything other than amazing despite Alex not being the easiest of people to get on with at times!)

     

    I think getting a diagnosis for our family has been very positive but that it is definitely based on person to person.

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