How important is a diagnostic label for children?

Hi

I have a child with Asperger's Syndrome.  For us and for him this getting a diagnosis was important as it helped us have a clearer understanding of our son and for him it made him feel less alone.  He told us a few years later that he had felt lonely because he was different from everyone else.  After diagnosis he felt that he was not on his own anymore. 

I only ask this question as I wanted to see if we were alone in feeling that diagnosis was important for children.  I have had conversations recently from people within various professions who have questioned the necessity for getting a diagnostic label as it can be damaging to the child's future, possibly putting limitations on them.

I understand the arguments for not needlessly labelling children and my feeling is that if their condition, whatever it is, is having an affect on their life then it is necessary to get a dianosis so that there is a clear understanding as to why they are having these difficulties and so that support can be more easily directed to meet their needs.

In the ideal world there would be no need for a diagnosis of anything as children would have their needs met on an indivualised basis but unfortunately we do not seem to be anywhere near living in this world.

Let me know your views and opinions.  I welcome comments on either side of the argument.

 

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  • Hi Hong Kong Phooey,

    Thank you for your comments.

    I'm really pleased for you that you feel a diagnosis is helpful to you and your son especially when you can see it is making a difference as in going to the dentist.

    My son has only had a vague diagnosis which really concerns me especially when I hear stories like your brothers and why I joined this forum so that I can take steps now while he's still a child to do things to help him - life in general is a huge trial to him!

    I was also very interested in what you say about your Dad because (although I have never said so) I wonder sometimes about my father in law as I see so many similarities in behaviour that my son portrays.

    Thank you and good luck with your son.

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  • Hi Hong Kong Phooey,

    Thank you for your comments.

    I'm really pleased for you that you feel a diagnosis is helpful to you and your son especially when you can see it is making a difference as in going to the dentist.

    My son has only had a vague diagnosis which really concerns me especially when I hear stories like your brothers and why I joined this forum so that I can take steps now while he's still a child to do things to help him - life in general is a huge trial to him!

    I was also very interested in what you say about your Dad because (although I have never said so) I wonder sometimes about my father in law as I see so many similarities in behaviour that my son portrays.

    Thank you and good luck with your son.

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