How important is a diagnostic label for children?

Hi

I have a child with Asperger's Syndrome.  For us and for him this getting a diagnosis was important as it helped us have a clearer understanding of our son and for him it made him feel less alone.  He told us a few years later that he had felt lonely because he was different from everyone else.  After diagnosis he felt that he was not on his own anymore. 

I only ask this question as I wanted to see if we were alone in feeling that diagnosis was important for children.  I have had conversations recently from people within various professions who have questioned the necessity for getting a diagnostic label as it can be damaging to the child's future, possibly putting limitations on them.

I understand the arguments for not needlessly labelling children and my feeling is that if their condition, whatever it is, is having an affect on their life then it is necessary to get a dianosis so that there is a clear understanding as to why they are having these difficulties and so that support can be more easily directed to meet their needs.

In the ideal world there would be no need for a diagnosis of anything as children would have their needs met on an indivualised basis but unfortunately we do not seem to be anywhere near living in this world.

Let me know your views and opinions.  I welcome comments on either side of the argument.

 

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  • Hi Hope

    Thanks for you post.  I think you are right.  We were also told that my son was emotionally immature every year through his primary school years.  They did offer support to him but then he has always been a high achiever so read into that what you will.  Almost every person I have met with AS feels positive about having that label and it seems to be really important to them.  I feel that by being told you have AS it gives you some meaning and purpose, and gives you a message that there is still hope.

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  • Hi Hope

    Thanks for you post.  I think you are right.  We were also told that my son was emotionally immature every year through his primary school years.  They did offer support to him but then he has always been a high achiever so read into that what you will.  Almost every person I have met with AS feels positive about having that label and it seems to be really important to them.  I feel that by being told you have AS it gives you some meaning and purpose, and gives you a message that there is still hope.

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