Newly diagnosed

Hi all, I am the mother of a newly diagnosed 8 year old boy. Where do I go from here, where do I start? I have been into school and spoken to the SENCO, who will get the ball rolling in school, and be setting things in place. I guess I just wondered what else I should be doing? I had so much information thrown at me the other week, that it took me a day or two to get over the shock. I was shocked even though I was half expecting the diagnosis. My boy has always been very different to other kids his age, but part of me was still shocked to learn just how different. I had no idea his world was quite so confusing, but I'm so proud of him Smile 

Any advice? 

ETA he is high functioning ASD 

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  • Thanks lucieBoo, I guess we each find our own way to deal with it. It's hard to make sense of it, as you say it's a minefield. My boy has ASD, but I should be thankful as he's in a mainstream school and quite high functioning. I just want to do everything I can to to help him, and I guess make his life as easy as I can, without pampering him too much. I don't want to let him get away with whatever behaviour he wants, with the excuse oh he's autistic, but at the same time of course it explains a lot of his behaviour, and I need to be mindful of his feelings x 

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  • Thanks lucieBoo, I guess we each find our own way to deal with it. It's hard to make sense of it, as you say it's a minefield. My boy has ASD, but I should be thankful as he's in a mainstream school and quite high functioning. I just want to do everything I can to to help him, and I guess make his life as easy as I can, without pampering him too much. I don't want to let him get away with whatever behaviour he wants, with the excuse oh he's autistic, but at the same time of course it explains a lot of his behaviour, and I need to be mindful of his feelings x 

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