Hospital Appointment

Hello

Hoping to keep this short so will not say a lot of detail about why I have the appointment, but I do.

On 30th Decmber at 2pm I have a appointment at hospital-in a Heart Center to see a specilist.  I do not completly understand what is wrong other than my heart does not as well as it should. the GP does not know any more so had to send me to the specilist.  (its a longer story than that honest) 

So, I have been having a lot of problems and really want to get my heart better so I can exersise and other things again, and not have major issues with standing up or being dizzy and falling over a lot. 

But, I also (ASD related) imagine a lot of problems with acually going to the appointment. New person -may not understand ASD, will end up none verbal, they will not know what is wrong etc.., New place -possible to be noisy, or buzzing no-one else can  hear, or too bright, or too many people, or no-where that I feel able to sit-I am very fussy about seats, confusing things - doctors make things so complicated going too fast and using long words I do not know what they mean, tests - I assume I will need a  few test for them to know what is wrong, like well as long as it is not anything touching me, noisy, bright, etc then im fine! (basically they is no test like that), treatment - i can not swalow tablets, well I do not know what they might want to do but I hope it is not bad. 

I know I need to go, so I can be better and be allowed to do exersise and my breathing problems and chest pains stop. but absolutly anything that can make the whole process at all easier would be amazing. I will definatly be taking sunglasses, ear defenders, something to fidget with and communication cards that I use already. But like anything else to help me to prepare for it or to cope with it would be a big help.

Amy 

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  • Also a good idea to take someone with you who can better take in the information. They do tend to explain things without appreciating that the patient is not best placed to understand what is being explained.

    Also try not to do so much option exploration in your head - following through all the possible permutations, particularly the bad ones, in any situation.

    If you are prone to this try to find a way of interrupting this - flick your ear or somewhere else that produces enough discomfort to interrupt the thinking process, then try to apply reality - most of the things you are anticipating may be least likely to happen. Try to give yourself positive options as well as negative ones.

    Having said that, yes some health personnel don't seem to understand autism despite all the awareness training that supposedly is going on. And most hospitals seem amazingly oblivious to sources of noise, like those pay-as-you-go TV monitors above your bed that hum and whirr at night, or those personal fridges for keeping patient specific medications that run empty most of the time.

    But having someone around regularly can provide an intermediary to communicate needs, and hopefully explaining that you have ASD will be enough to ensure sensitive care.

    My lengthy hospital experiences are 2-5 years behind me now, so hopefully things have got better since. But on a premed in 2009 I wrote on the form mild asperger's syndrome. Before the op the anaesthetist kept asking what inhaler I used and seemed unconvinced by my protestation I didn't use one, until they produced my premed form to prove the point. Someone after I'd signed it had scored out asperger's syndrome and written above it "asthma".

    Well obviously I was a silly patient who had clearly meant to write asthma. And after all everyone knows what aspergers is, and obviously if the patient could fill in the form, rather than a carer, well obviously its not aspergers. Indeed I kept finding that they assumed I had a carer who could be contacted.

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  • Also a good idea to take someone with you who can better take in the information. They do tend to explain things without appreciating that the patient is not best placed to understand what is being explained.

    Also try not to do so much option exploration in your head - following through all the possible permutations, particularly the bad ones, in any situation.

    If you are prone to this try to find a way of interrupting this - flick your ear or somewhere else that produces enough discomfort to interrupt the thinking process, then try to apply reality - most of the things you are anticipating may be least likely to happen. Try to give yourself positive options as well as negative ones.

    Having said that, yes some health personnel don't seem to understand autism despite all the awareness training that supposedly is going on. And most hospitals seem amazingly oblivious to sources of noise, like those pay-as-you-go TV monitors above your bed that hum and whirr at night, or those personal fridges for keeping patient specific medications that run empty most of the time.

    But having someone around regularly can provide an intermediary to communicate needs, and hopefully explaining that you have ASD will be enough to ensure sensitive care.

    My lengthy hospital experiences are 2-5 years behind me now, so hopefully things have got better since. But on a premed in 2009 I wrote on the form mild asperger's syndrome. Before the op the anaesthetist kept asking what inhaler I used and seemed unconvinced by my protestation I didn't use one, until they produced my premed form to prove the point. Someone after I'd signed it had scored out asperger's syndrome and written above it "asthma".

    Well obviously I was a silly patient who had clearly meant to write asthma. And after all everyone knows what aspergers is, and obviously if the patient could fill in the form, rather than a carer, well obviously its not aspergers. Indeed I kept finding that they assumed I had a carer who could be contacted.

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