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Not sure if I'm in the right place. Four year old possible SPD..

Lau85

Hi there,

Firstly, I apologise if this isnt the right place to be questioning.. I did a little Googling and I can't find many places that aren't autism based. 

Secondly, hello. I am a single, working Mumma to a beautiful four year old boy. He is delightful, funny, excitable, intense and Spirited! He has been in Reception class since September and during this time, it has become quite noticeable to his teachers, there's some issues. 

At first, I'm fairly sure they thought he had ADHD. He constantly fidgets, lack of eye contact, impulsive and easily frustrated, overwhelmed by big groups (but tends to get overexcited, as opposed to wallowing in the corner!) He is also very bright, he goes into the year one class for reading, and spelling / phonics etc.. He has an extensive vocabulary and an excellent understanding. Initially, throughout Nursery (attached to the school) they queried social immaturity and I suspect ADHD!

I have been questioning the ADHD thing, I have done some research, and whilst he ticks some boxes, I don't personally think he has it.

My lovely little man has had a tough few years, he has been very poorly and has numerous problems, including mild low frequency hearing loss as a result of a fever syndrome he has. He has spent a lot of his time in Hospital. 

His teacher involved SENco and they involved a behavioural specialist who came to observe him. He is almost certain he has a Sensory and possibly Auditory Processing Disorder. From what I have read myself, he would be more in the hyposensitive for touch etc.. More hypersensitive to noises.. He struggles to hold a pencil properly and use things like scissors which was brought to my attention by the teacher... 

I really don't know a lot about it, or what I can do to help him stay calm and manage his feelings better. I questioned the relation to Autism, in particular Aspergers, which he shows some tendencies, but his teacher said they aren't concerned about ASD at all. 

Any advice is appreciated. Thank you..

Laura.

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  • Many of us on the spectrum do have some form of sensory issue.

    That being said, before my Autism diagnosis, I was talking to a consultant of mine because I was becoming increasingly senstive to light. (and earlier on in my life, noise) I was told that many with this problem don't have anything else wrong with them.

    However, you're his mum and know him better than the teacher. Many children with ASD act differently at home. Many parents on here have said their child acts fine at school and then acts out at home.

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  • Many of us on the spectrum do have some form of sensory issue.

    That being said, before my Autism diagnosis, I was talking to a consultant of mine because I was becoming increasingly senstive to light. (and earlier on in my life, noise) I was told that many with this problem don't have anything else wrong with them.

    However, you're his mum and know him better than the teacher. Many children with ASD act differently at home. Many parents on here have said their child acts fine at school and then acts out at home.

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