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Haircuts

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Until yesterday, I hadn't had a haircut for over a year because my old salon closed and it's a nightmare trying to psych myself up to phone a new one or even drop by in person. But I managed it, because I found one locally that lets you book online. Congratulations to me!

Except, actually, no Sweat smile

I've mentioned on here before that I like to dye my hair bright colours. I don't really have the spoons or the skills to do it myself so I'm quite happy to pay someone else to do it. Unfortunately, at my hair appointment yesterday the sheer amount of hair I have and the year-plus of growth/fading hair dye meant my hair was an absolute mess. I was in there ALL AFTERNOON.

Everyone was lovely and they did a great job on my hair, and the sensory experience is mostly not too bad for me as I don't mind the smell of the products or the feeling of the dye on my head. But it took so long, and washing my hair is a sensory nightmare even when I do it myself, so by the time I left I thought I might burst into tears from sheer exhaustion.

Today I'm worn out and useless. I have great (pink!) hair and am incapable of showing it to anyone because I'm flopped on the sofa with the dog and have zero mental AND physical energy.

I know getting your hair done is a tough one for a lot of autistic people even when we're adults. If anyone has any tips I would really appreciate them- as long as those tips aren't "cut it all off", because I have a tiny head and a long neck and need long hair to avoid looking like an ostrich Joy

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  • im ok with getting my hair cut but i suppose it depends on the barber...

    my parents when young had this mobile hairdresser and i think she wasnt very trained and her scissors were blunt, it felt like she was plucking my hair or something felt like a twang and a rip out from the scalp. she also pretty much pulled me up off from the chair by my hair one time when grasping it and combing it into a bunch she could cut, she was a proper gorilla with how rough she was lol

    other barbers i got on my own later have all been far better. but the issue is i go in and i dont know what to say.... like, is there a menu? lol ... i just want a haircut, i dont know the names of the haircuts, short but not short, not sure what length or styles i dont know any of your names just cut my hair and dont make me look like a dork basically... i went into mancave or whatever near me and went in vaguely saying i want it short or whatever and they managed to do a good job. will probably use them from now on as its on my doorstep. usually grow my hair out a year or so myself first as i like to get my moneys worth and not be blowing cash frequently on this stuff anyway so i push my hair to the limit and get it cut when it gets a bit annoying or when the weather gets too warm.

    but yeah, i find it ok, i just close my eyes and let them do whatever, and hope when i open my eyes i dont look too silly lol

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  • im ok with getting my hair cut but i suppose it depends on the barber...

    my parents when young had this mobile hairdresser and i think she wasnt very trained and her scissors were blunt, it felt like she was plucking my hair or something felt like a twang and a rip out from the scalp. she also pretty much pulled me up off from the chair by my hair one time when grasping it and combing it into a bunch she could cut, she was a proper gorilla with how rough she was lol

    other barbers i got on my own later have all been far better. but the issue is i go in and i dont know what to say.... like, is there a menu? lol ... i just want a haircut, i dont know the names of the haircuts, short but not short, not sure what length or styles i dont know any of your names just cut my hair and dont make me look like a dork basically... i went into mancave or whatever near me and went in vaguely saying i want it short or whatever and they managed to do a good job. will probably use them from now on as its on my doorstep. usually grow my hair out a year or so myself first as i like to get my moneys worth and not be blowing cash frequently on this stuff anyway so i push my hair to the limit and get it cut when it gets a bit annoying or when the weather gets too warm.

    but yeah, i find it ok, i just close my eyes and let them do whatever, and hope when i open my eyes i dont look too silly lol

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