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Diagnosis update

ralphtown

Well,I think this is my 4th post in this forum.

hopefully it might inspire those having trouble getting diagnosis or having problems finding their way thru...don,t give up folks :)

 

I have 4 kids am a 51 year old male(just had my birthday).

3 out of 4 "suffer" with ASD.

Eldest Son has dyslexia and other issues but never been diagnosed.

youngest Son has Aspergus and has been given full diagnosis.

youngest Daughter has all the symptoms of Aspergus,has had a diagnosis of depression,ADHD and low self esteem.Also has communication issues.

 

So.

Where did it all come from.Who is to "blame"?

Well,I had an idea that it might be me.

I went to my doctor who was a little less than helpful,so I called the NAS helpline.

They gave me a few pointers and I went back to the doctor with all the info sent to me by email from NAS.

 

after getting just a little "eggy" with my doctor,who told me I did,nt look like I had Aspergus,I finally got an appointment with the Autism unit at the reasonably local adult mental unit.

 

Last week I met with a lovely lady and have started the diagnosis process.

Its taken 51 years but HEY!

we,re on the way.

i,ve had a copy of a letter sent to my GP saying that further investigation is warrented.Read that as you like but I think,they think,I have an issue...or a million.

 

Bottom line...DON,T GIVE UP!!

If its you or your child that you have concerns about,KEEP DIGGING.

You have to complain,kick doors down,write to MPs...whatever.

There seems to be a certain feeling of closure,a feeling that I might finally discover why I,ve felt like a round peg in a square hole all my life.

It feels almost like some sort of religious experience.

Like the feeling you get when you go over the top on a roller coaster.

its a bit scary but its putting a smile on my face and I,ve not had one of those for decades.

RALPH.

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  • I was originally diagnosed with OCD and anxiety by a psychologist at the mental health team. I have suffered from anxiety all my life. I have always been tense and introverted. But the original cause of my anxiety is asperger's which is why the CBT I was receiving did not work. I only began to overcome some of my phobias once I had received the diagnosis of AS.

    Both schools I attended were hopeless in attending to my problems. Aside from me getting a statement of SEN at age 10, for difficulties relating to organization, spatial awareness, coordination and 'immature emotions', nothing was done. I had outside classroom support with comprehension and PE, but nothing was done about my problem making friends!.

    I often got into trouble at school. I annoyed the other children and never concentrated on school work unless it interested me. I was very immature and said and did inappropriate things, all in order to get a reaction because I could not relate in the usual way.

    I made progress socially in my teens, but it was all learnt behaviour. I learnt to talk nicely and to be receptive to other people. But I still struggle with social skills, even though on the face of it I can mask my difficulties very well, or so I have been told

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  • I was originally diagnosed with OCD and anxiety by a psychologist at the mental health team. I have suffered from anxiety all my life. I have always been tense and introverted. But the original cause of my anxiety is asperger's which is why the CBT I was receiving did not work. I only began to overcome some of my phobias once I had received the diagnosis of AS.

    Both schools I attended were hopeless in attending to my problems. Aside from me getting a statement of SEN at age 10, for difficulties relating to organization, spatial awareness, coordination and 'immature emotions', nothing was done. I had outside classroom support with comprehension and PE, but nothing was done about my problem making friends!.

    I often got into trouble at school. I annoyed the other children and never concentrated on school work unless it interested me. I was very immature and said and did inappropriate things, all in order to get a reaction because I could not relate in the usual way.

    I made progress socially in my teens, but it was all learnt behaviour. I learnt to talk nicely and to be receptive to other people. But I still struggle with social skills, even though on the face of it I can mask my difficulties very well, or so I have been told

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