I've noticed for quite a while that there is real discontent by the lack of provision from NAS and like.
I thought this charity I have come across, based in Northampton, may be useful for someone on here. It is also looking from around the end of this year to start offering an adults' diagnostic serivce provided by an experianced GP
https://www.actionforaspergers.org/
They also offer other services (e.g. counsellors) and family services etc.
I know this won't solve everything but hope it goes some way to help someone in need.
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Good luck to her. I hope the NAS do not ring fence her and she can franchise out and then form a real autistic national society.