Difficult behaviour difficult to prove but have no caught it

I have had trouble getting my daughter diagnosed because while out she is quiet, listens and enjoys being a voyeur in life but at home, behind closed doors, she is quite different. We have had an OT assessment and Camhs Social Worker has informally diagnosed Asperger's Syndrome with Sensory Integration Disorder.

The only way I have been able to get help recently is to take videos of her typical behaviour. MyDaugherVideos the videos taken are all within 4 days of each other and not all videos have been uploaded, so you can see that we spend almost every day in conflict or noise.

Any advice or opinion would be very much appreciated.

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  • Hi no she has not been diagnosed as yet, her mum has been trying to get her some help via the doctor, who put her in touch with someone at school and her mum has been trying to get the school to agree that there are problems, They have been vey unhelpful and although they keep reporting problems to her mum, then say they don't have problems, yet she is bullied for being too friendly, underachieves even though she is intelligent, disrupts the class but doesnt seem to understand she is doing this, and is does things on impulse even though she has been told it is wrong and says she understands, but then will do the same things during the course of the day. She is often overhelpful and constantly on the go, often does things that most children would stop when told it could be dangerous such as wandering off, nothing you explain to her seems to sink in, for more than a few minutes. she is extremely loving and generous, sometimes to the point of giving away all that she has.

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  • Hi no she has not been diagnosed as yet, her mum has been trying to get her some help via the doctor, who put her in touch with someone at school and her mum has been trying to get the school to agree that there are problems, They have been vey unhelpful and although they keep reporting problems to her mum, then say they don't have problems, yet she is bullied for being too friendly, underachieves even though she is intelligent, disrupts the class but doesnt seem to understand she is doing this, and is does things on impulse even though she has been told it is wrong and says she understands, but then will do the same things during the course of the day. She is often overhelpful and constantly on the go, often does things that most children would stop when told it could be dangerous such as wandering off, nothing you explain to her seems to sink in, for more than a few minutes. she is extremely loving and generous, sometimes to the point of giving away all that she has.

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