Natural/herbal remedies for anxiety - do any of them actually work?

I'm afraid I never had any success with valerian or passiflora or hops or chamomile or any OTC remedies containing mixtures of these, not even when I swallowed down half the jar (in desperation) and washed them down with alcohol (in even greater desperation).  I tried rescue remedy too, but that didn't help at all, nor any other of the flower remedies.  

I have a long history of trying such things, plus also various psychological approaches, although the range on the NHS is very limited.  Plus I've been on a few courses too.  I always thought the answer would be just around the corner and I'd be able to bring my anxiety levels down. 

Meditation, tai chi and yoga have helped to a degree, and especially over the years as my nervous system has seemed to calm down as I've aged.  Not what you're asking about, I know, but those practices helped to restore hope for me.

Unfortunately, the only herb that has helped me is cannabis and then only when it has at least a little THC in it.  I believe the Sapphire Clinic are offering places for subsidised treatment at the moment, but I don't know how many or how affordable this might make it.  The THC oil works well for me and is expensive at £80 a bottle.  However one bottle lasts me 3 months so the cost/day is reasonable. 

To be honest, I wish I could go back and bin many of my other efforts as the costs for those mounted up over the years.  A bit of acceptance of my anxiety-prone self would have helped too, plus more understanding of the many drivers behind it.  

Sorry you are going through this.  I know it's a load to carry each day.  I know I recommended cannabis before and there are many barriers to accessing it, unfortunately.  If you have a local cannabis club they might be able to help.  For me edibles were the way to go and a low dose,  slow and steady approach has enabled me to relax without any negative side effects.  Please pm me if I might be of help on this subject.  Cannabis is one of those subjects where I expect to get deleted, even though I get it on legal prescription these days.  

Hi Jenny - many thanks for this - it’s extremely helpful. Your experience sounds very similar to mine - and it made me laugh to read of you swigging down natural remedies and wine in desperation - I can relate! 
What’s not funny of course is how hard it is to live with long term, persistent anxiety - at its worst it feels genuinely life threatening because it can become unbearable. 

Like you I feel I’ve wasted a lot of money trying things that don’t work - which is frustrating (I ordered more yesterday……). 
I’ve contacted Sapphire Clinic this morning - I remember you mentioning them before - so thank you for sharing your experience. It’s completely legal and I find that very reassuring. 
I’m so glad it’s helped you. It really should be available on the nhs in my opinion - so many of the other drugs the nhs prescribes are much more dangerous than low doses of medicinal cannabis after all! 
 Thanks for your help Jenny - and I hope it keeps working for you. It’s so hard to enjoy life when your anxious - and we deserve to be able to enjoy life - just like anybody else. 

Kate Kestrel said:

Your experience sounds very similar to mine - and it made me laugh to read of you swigging down natural remedies and wine in desperation - I can relate! 
What’s not funny of course is how hard it is to live with long term, persistent anxiety - at its worst it feels genuinely life threatening because it can become unbearable. 

Me too! In desperation I swigged nearly the whole bottle of CBD oil, instead of the recommended few drops. Still no effect. Then on another occasion recently I finished a whole bottle of wine in less than an hour. I certainly do not recommend that and I don't think I'll be touching wine for a while yet 

It is so hard to live with persistent anxiety. I wake up anxious, I go to bed anxious and remain anxious to some degree at every waking second in between. Most of the time I don't even know why I'm so anxious, since I've removed myself from as many triggers and stressors as I can.

When my baseline anxiety is so high to start with and something does trigger me the physical effects very quickly become unbearable. I understand when you say it can feel genuinely life threatening. As our bodies age I think we become more aware of the damage that kind of constant fight or flight stress response can do.

I think that the dangers can be mitigated if we realise that we're neurodivergent.  Plus in many ways things can be improved because we'll have more knowledge and awareness to draw upon, alongside any support or reasonable accommodations that we can access IF we know we're autistic. 

In my wider family, there were repeated patterns of alcohol problems, mental health issues and one suicide.  And within my immediate family growing up we faced isolation, poverty and sometimes even ridicule and other kinds of bullying.  We became very ashamed and hid from the world even more because, of course, we were blamed and misunderstood.  And we couldn't have friends round because the house was in such a state.  Meanwhile I was a bit of a nerdy swot at school and got bullied for that too, with people assuming that I came from a privileged background (I got free school dinners and wore the cheap version of the the school uniform but everyone, including the teachers, thought we must be well heeled because I was well spoken, polite, no trouble at all and very academic).

I honestly think, though, that much of this could have been avoided with better knowledge and even just a bit of extra support.  And you're probably in a much better position to parent these days, with identification. more resources and forums like this one.  My parents did the best with what they had.  It's just that what they had was very little - emotionally, practically and financially.         

Actually one of the first self help books I read.  That and "How to Win Friends and Influence People".  I wonder how many of us have built up a whole library of self help books...   

Actually one of the first self help books I read.  That and "How to Win Friends and Influence People".  I wonder how many of us have built up a whole library of self help books...