Worried about 2yo daughter

Hi I'm new here after finding this website on google.

My daughter is 2 years old and I'm not with her mother anymore. She had meningitis at 3 months old. So she has had every follow up check from hearing to speech since that time.

I didn't see my daughter for nearly 2 years afterwards. So I'm just getting used to seeing her more again on my own. Basically my concern is that she has autism and that I'm the only person to have recognised this!

I wrote a list of the things that I have noticein every time that I see her ranging from no eye contact to repeating the same nursery rhymes over and over.

I feel that I'm in a bad situation because her mother and me don't really get along and she never tells me anything. So does anybody know a way to go about it without arguments about how I'm wrong When really I'm very concerned and know it needs to be tackled early! 

Thanks x

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  • I spoke to her mother after I posted this yesterday.

    her mother reckons that it's because she doesn't know me, she's been seeing me week in week out since September. My mum works with people with autism so I can see the signs. Basically she's formed it off. I don't really know where to take it from now as I have strong concerns regarding the whole thing.

    would it be best to make an appointment with my doctor and explain my concerns or would that make it worse?

    thanks for your reply

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  • I spoke to her mother after I posted this yesterday.

    her mother reckons that it's because she doesn't know me, she's been seeing me week in week out since September. My mum works with people with autism so I can see the signs. Basically she's formed it off. I don't really know where to take it from now as I have strong concerns regarding the whole thing.

    would it be best to make an appointment with my doctor and explain my concerns or would that make it worse?

    thanks for your reply

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