is there any value in having a diagnosis

My son aged 11, has increasingly obvious behaviour consistent with aspsrgers, is there any benefit to getting a diagnosis. A few examples- He couldnt understand why it wasn't ok to jump out on his brother at the top of the stairs, as his brother had surprised him in his bedroom earlier, he saw it as the same action.  Then could not understand why he was told off. The whole Margaret Thatcher,  witch song has him confused,  as I have to explain she wasn't actually a witch, even though he knows they are fiction. Also he struggles with simple things, if I ask him to put on a long sleaved top, to him sweaters, junpers, fleece etc are not ling sleaved tops, as this is not their name.  He is ver intuitive and bright, great at solving a problem and fantastic at art. His self esteem is very low, we go to great lengths to build him up, and one thing can push him backwards, and he will occasionally hit himself when he struggles or gets things wrong. should we get help and assessment or just carry on as we are. Anyine in a similar situation. Thanks

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  • Hi again Sparkle,

    I think considering your circumstances that is a wise choice, your son is doing really well in coping with all of the above, but good to help him in case he gets bogged down it can be a stressful time for boys that age.  Read all you can about Aspergers to help you understand, that is the best thing you can do to support him and stand your sons ground if neccessary.

    Good luck Laughing

    Puffin

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  • Hi again Sparkle,

    I think considering your circumstances that is a wise choice, your son is doing really well in coping with all of the above, but good to help him in case he gets bogged down it can be a stressful time for boys that age.  Read all you can about Aspergers to help you understand, that is the best thing you can do to support him and stand your sons ground if neccessary.

    Good luck Laughing

    Puffin

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