aspergers and chronic constipation

Hi all,

just wondering if anyone else out there has a problem with a child on the spectrum and constipation issues.  my son has had chronic constipation controled by medicine, currently Dulcolax since he was three! he is now six and although mainly under control with the medicine i worry what long term effect this could have.  his diet is ok, could be better but he is a picky eater, i guess it goes hand in hand with Aspergers!  He was ill with a really bad cold last week missed one day of trying for the toilet and went to day nine of no go!  He was in tears scared of trying, really upsetting for me we have this two - four times each year usually following a bout of illness, but he is on Dulcolax constantly normally low dosage until these occasions occur!  strangley my husband who we now recognise as having Aspergers suffered the same thing as a child.

I am getting my son refferred back to the hospital for his constipation as the medicine does not seem to work as well as it use to, not surprisingly!  But i wonder if he needs more help not just medicine as it seems to me it is mind over matter with my son, On day seven of having not gone to the toilet he said " i think day ten will be the day, it was lucky before"!  so he seems to hold on till then !  What can i do.  he just does not seem to understand the problem.  He may also be very sensitive to pain not the usual under sensitivity noted with Aspergers. 

Any advice much appreciated.

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  • Azalea said:

    Hi Puffin,

    I didn't know we were supposed to have an undersensitivity to pain - I definitely don't. My pain threshold is practically non-existant, it's so low. Pain is one of my major phobias.

    ditto.,, all my emotional energy goes into a pain sensation and floors me because I grew up without comfort from a ice-cold mother, so I don't know how to regulate pain and emotional pain, so I spiral into a meltdown. So, I also have a phobia and low pain threshold cause I do not know how to cope with pain, also I do not wish anyone being near in or touch me when I am pain, so I end up extreme vulnerable and unable to talk, but the nt's it is just a bit pain.  I would give the NAS  another 90million pounds in funding if I could find a way to mitigate the pain to normal response levels, until then I AM DYING ! Yell

    On response to the question of constipation, I would say drink more water and no milk(adds mucus to the toilet so it maybe would constipate more)

     

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  • Azalea said:

    Hi Puffin,

    I didn't know we were supposed to have an undersensitivity to pain - I definitely don't. My pain threshold is practically non-existant, it's so low. Pain is one of my major phobias.

    ditto.,, all my emotional energy goes into a pain sensation and floors me because I grew up without comfort from a ice-cold mother, so I don't know how to regulate pain and emotional pain, so I spiral into a meltdown. So, I also have a phobia and low pain threshold cause I do not know how to cope with pain, also I do not wish anyone being near in or touch me when I am pain, so I end up extreme vulnerable and unable to talk, but the nt's it is just a bit pain.  I would give the NAS  another 90million pounds in funding if I could find a way to mitigate the pain to normal response levels, until then I AM DYING ! Yell

    On response to the question of constipation, I would say drink more water and no milk(adds mucus to the toilet so it maybe would constipate more)

     

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