and im not sure im that fat tbh used to be around 6 stone until my 20s, then i sorted out my fussy eating and took up martial arts classes too which increased muscle mass to make me around 9.5 stone. it had a really fitness focused first half of lessons that honestly killed and scared most people off the classes lol
because a joke is not berating.... if i were to berate him on this question id have shot down his question in a mean way and called it a silly question and him silly for asking... that is what berating is.... perhaps learn the word first before using it?
and honestly i thought i would be one of the most uneducated and slower autists here... i thought i was the low bar on intelligence in our community...
how did i berate anyone? can you read my remark back please and think on it more?
i mean, i totally understand here that you could just be misunderstanding my comment or misunderstanding a joke. i accept that is part of autism and thus i accept your misunderstanding here.
but to most people here im pretty sure theyd not see any berating in my comment or anything bad. infact a few people with aspergers actually make the same joke many times, infact i probably got that joke from them to begin with...
how did i berate anyone? can you read my remark back please and think on it more?
i mean, i totally understand here that you could just be misunderstanding my comment or misunderstanding a joke. i accept that is part of autism and thus i accept your misunderstanding here.
but to most people here im pretty sure theyd not see any berating in my comment or anything bad. infact a few people with aspergers actually make the same joke many times, infact i probably got that joke from them to begin with...
because a joke is not berating.... if i were to berate him on this question id have shot down his question in a mean way and called it a silly question and him silly for asking... that is what berating is.... perhaps learn the word first before using it?
and honestly i thought i would be one of the most uneducated and slower autists here... i thought i was the low bar on intelligence in our community...
