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Looking to go private for a diagnosis on aspergers

Chazzer

Hi I'm hoping anyone that's reading this could help me,my 11 year old son was referred by his school in may 2011 as we think he has aspergers,I took my son to my GP when he was 7 as I knew there was something not quite right only to be told I was a stressed mum of 5 and there was nothing wrong if only they had listened to me,as it is we are now on the nhs waiting list for a autistic diagnostic interview which I have been told will last a couple of hours the problem is we have been on the list since august 2011 and i have been told he is not going to be seen for a least another 9 months as nhs is so short staffed they haven't even seen anyone on that list for a couple of months,I was told by the nhs I could go private if I wanted but they are refusing to give me anin information on where to go,I feel I should not have to go down this route but if it will help my son I'm prepared to do anything,if anyone has any information on where I could go for this I would be very grateful,I live in Peterborough but would travel else where if needed,thanks Charlie x

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  • quote "You could take your son off sick from school with stress and let them involve the education welfare officer and threaten to home-educate him (even if you don't mean it) so that they will sit up and take notice and find an alternative for him. There are small teaching units for children that can't handle school but you might have a big fight on your hands. Of course you would need a helpful friend or relative to look after your son whilst he spent any time off school if you have to work."

    I ditto intenseworld wise comments,, because the NHS is a machine, like school, not a person, so why should your kid suffer through the hands of a bureaucracy. Get yourself a professional assistance, maybe even a lawyers letter to the NHS because 9 MONTHS IS A LOT OF TIME without support,, in fact maybe a support network put in place prior to "full" diagnosis as it will take long-term to set up a support plan anyway. MAYBE THE ANSWER IS FOR AN INITIAL ASSESSMENT TO BE CARRIED OUT, it will only take a hour, maybe you could pay for that and that can be your letter to send to the NHS as a priority case.

    Good luck, maybe the NAS can point you in the right direction.

    P.S tell them you can have a new baby in 9 months

     

     

     

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  • quote "You could take your son off sick from school with stress and let them involve the education welfare officer and threaten to home-educate him (even if you don't mean it) so that they will sit up and take notice and find an alternative for him. There are small teaching units for children that can't handle school but you might have a big fight on your hands. Of course you would need a helpful friend or relative to look after your son whilst he spent any time off school if you have to work."

    I ditto intenseworld wise comments,, because the NHS is a machine, like school, not a person, so why should your kid suffer through the hands of a bureaucracy. Get yourself a professional assistance, maybe even a lawyers letter to the NHS because 9 MONTHS IS A LOT OF TIME without support,, in fact maybe a support network put in place prior to "full" diagnosis as it will take long-term to set up a support plan anyway. MAYBE THE ANSWER IS FOR AN INITIAL ASSESSMENT TO BE CARRIED OUT, it will only take a hour, maybe you could pay for that and that can be your letter to send to the NHS as a priority case.

    Good luck, maybe the NAS can point you in the right direction.

    P.S tell them you can have a new baby in 9 months

     

     

     

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