How do I get my 3 year old to eat solids?

My girl is 3 and refuses to eat solids.  We (home and nursery) have to spoon feed her purees and very soft foods such as yoghurts.  I am desperate for her to eat properly, her weight has always been fine but lately she seems to be looking a bit thin.  I will bring it up with her consultant when we next see him, but so far noone seems to be worried by her eating habits.  I know, however, it would make life better for all of us if I could get her to eat chocolate and cheese straws lol.

 

My 2 year old girl is also going through the diagnosis process and will also not eat.  Food is not a problem for anyone else in our family lol, our eldest wolfed it down.

 

Just wondered if anyone had any tips?  She's is non verbal and understands very little language.