Help! Identity Confusion with ASD, multiple personalities???

Background knowledge: I am in the process of being diagnosed with ASD and ADD. I also have gender dysphoria. I am concerned that I may also have OSDD 1-b, and therefore multiple personalities. 

Here is what I know:

  • I feel multiple "mental presences" that "push up" against mine and alter my thoughts and emotions.
  • My mental presences feel like they have different genders, ages, beliefs, and emotions.  
  • My mental presences' thoughts and emotions feel like they are coming from outside my self, but from inside my brain. 
  • Most of the time, I do not feel like a singular person, I feel like a blurry mix of people with a shifting gender identity.
  • When I do have moments of clarity where I feel singular, I am male. 
  • I do not act drastically different in different situations or around different people. 
  • I have very little amnesia- I have never woken up in a strange situation not knowing how I got there. 
  • I have no physical evidence of these presences taking over my body. 
  • I do not hear voices. 
  • I have not yet had a successful communication with these presences. 
  • I do not have psychosis, schizophrenia, or BPD. 

If you have ASD and identity confusion and know how to help, please do!  If you have an idea of what this is, please share it! If you know how to make it go away, please tell me! Thank you!

(Also, I am an older teen if that helps.)

Parents
  • I'm sorry, I am in no way the best person to talk to about this but I'll try to help. I've never had another presence in my head, just different versions of me (good me, normal me, evil me) which were likely a symptom of my severe depression.

    A lot of disorders tend to manifest around the age of 20, and most of the symptoms tend to overlap each other. It does sound to me like you might possibly have DID/OSDD 1-b, along with your other conditions.

    I've found a list of organisations you could contact on the Mind UK website: https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/dissociation-and-dissociative-disorders/useful-contacts/ . If you're not from the UK, I can try to find a site that suits you.

    The worst bit is wanting help, but not knowing where to get it.

    If you need a ear or two, I'll be happy to lend them =) 

  • Thank you so much!!! I really appreciate that you took the time to respond, and knowing that this isn't a normal thing is really useful. The more stuff I can cross off the list of possible causes, the better, honestly! And yeah, not knowing where to look is hard, I've been looking everywhere and this was the first site I found that has given me any kind of helpful response. I'm in the US, but I'm sure that I can find the US equivalents. I didn't know that DID helplines were even a thing! 

    It was really kind of you to respond!!! 

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  • Thank you so much!!! I really appreciate that you took the time to respond, and knowing that this isn't a normal thing is really useful. The more stuff I can cross off the list of possible causes, the better, honestly! And yeah, not knowing where to look is hard, I've been looking everywhere and this was the first site I found that has given me any kind of helpful response. I'm in the US, but I'm sure that I can find the US equivalents. I didn't know that DID helplines were even a thing! 

    It was really kind of you to respond!!! 

Children
  • Ah, no worries =) It's really difficult to find the right place to find things when you're not even sure where to start.

    DID is mainly caused by childhood trauma, and can manifest anytime from childhood to young adult. If this sounds like you, then I would definitely seek help from DID organisations. If you're not sure, I would still seek help from them as they may have an inkling about what you're experiencing. 

    Feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to =)

    Links that might be helpful: to be added later