Early days in assesment

I posted a few weeks back regarding the issues my son has and over the last week he has begun the journey to diagnosis. We are getting some conflicting views from the Dr and Hv - the hv says because he is affectionate and spoke to her at the meeting it isnt autism but probably a behavoural issue that needs addressing. My Dr agreed that he could be very intelligent and manipulative with anxiety issues but did display some autistic symptoms. I had always felt they should be looking at mild aspergers and OCD but I guess we wont know until he is assessed. 

I have a couple questions which I hope you can help with. I totally understand that the initial referal appointment can take some time is there an average wait time? Also the Dr mentioned that the whole family would most likely need to be present for some of his assessment which includes my 7yr old daughter. I am wondering what would be the best way to explain this to her? I dont want her worrying and its hard to explain to adults what my son 'might' have let alone a child. 

Any advice is always appreciated. x

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  • I would'nt take to much notice of HV or GP as they dont specialise x they are the middle menx my little boy is so loving and affectionate an has asd x we waited for 4 months for our referal and a good tip would be to make notes of your little ones behaviour and difficulties as they can get a bigger picture more quickley x they said 90 percent he had it with reading notes an chatting to him x good luck with you appointment xx

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  • I would'nt take to much notice of HV or GP as they dont specialise x they are the middle menx my little boy is so loving and affectionate an has asd x we waited for 4 months for our referal and a good tip would be to make notes of your little ones behaviour and difficulties as they can get a bigger picture more quickley x they said 90 percent he had it with reading notes an chatting to him x good luck with you appointment xx

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