wondering if anyone has any experience of being on the spectrum and pregnant?
my sensory issues have gone absolutely crazy. I’m finding it very difficult to mask and my midwives are being so unhelpful, it’s actually spoiling my pregnancy
any experiences/advice/recommendations would be greatly appreciated.
also... how was the birth for anyone? With peoples pain thresholds? I know mine is different to NTs. Can anyone relate?
Hi, I have ASD and I also have 3 children.
I was an absolute hormonal nightmare when I was pregnant and very stroppy! How are you finding the mood swings?
What specific sensory issues are you struggling more with at the moment?
I’m a complete wimp with pain so I didn’t like the giving birth part but luckily all 3 of mine were in a hurry to get out so it was over and done with quite quickly!
Thank you for your reply! :) I’m glad there’s someone else out there that has been through this. The midwives are making me feel like I’ve been beamed down from another planet!
So far they’ve insulted me by saying I don’t look autistic... I was like oh what am I supposed to look like?
Then I’m not as autistic as one of their nephews?
Then tried putting me on anti depressants coz the GAD7 said I was depressed. I had it confirmed from a psychiatrist that a GAD7 won’t work on me as I don’t have an NT brain.
Then they refused my reasonable adjustments.
Oh and why am I not on medication?!
Sensory issues.... lights, sounds, crowds, temperature - everything is so heightened and it’s causing me physical pain.
My pain threshold is very high, unless it comes to my mouth. Then I seem as though I’m a drama queen. Luckily my dentist is very understanding and helps as much as she can. So I’m not sure how labour / birth is going to go for me? I did have the cramps in early pregnancy, but I don’t think I’ve ever really had period pain. Which I’ve never thought of until now... so I’m thinking it could go either way with my pain thresholds.
And my inability to mask right now is driving me insane. It’s causing problems everywhere I go. I think some of it is hormones too and I really am just struggling to be around anyone...
Everyone is thinking I’m rude and obnoxious and abrupt when really my communication and masking ability is being affected by the pain I’m in and everything seems to be falling apart around me.
Oh and then work decide to remove my reasonable adjustments and not tell me. This resulted in me having 6 meltdowns in one day, then work tell me not to worry I can have as a sick day! This was 4 days ago. I still haven’t returned to baseline state and now my balance and coordination has gone right off too.