Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi,
I just wanted to ask for some advice please. My boys are both autistic age 13 and 15. Today they got into an altercation, it started verbally and then got physical to the point I had to intervene. In sort y youngest threw a punch at his older brother but got me right on the cheek bone. Its now swollen to three times its size!
So my question is this. In my sons school all teachers and assistants are trained in Team Teach (the use of safe restraining, safeguarding etc). Would anyone know if similar is offered to parents with high octane and aggressive children at all? I live in Hampshire and to my knowledge and following research there does not appear to be any courses along this line. I'm only 5ft tall and although as a body builder I am physically strong, sometimes I just don't see the punch coming! Both my boys are much taller than me now too. Perhaps if I was competent in safe restraining it may prevent the issue becoming physical full stop. It just seem crazy to me that teachers have this resource but parents don't.
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Have a good day,
Rae
I empathize with your situation, Rae. It's commendable that you're seeking ways to manage conflicts effectively. While formal Team Teach training for parents may not be widely available, you could consider enrolling in Safeguarding Children Level 2 training, which can provide valuable insights into understanding and managing challenging behaviors in a safe and sensitive manner. Additionally, consulting with a child psychologist or behavior specialist might offer tailored strategies for de-escalation and conflict resolution in your home. Building open lines of communication with your boys to help them express their needs and emotions can also be pivotal. Remember, seeking professional guidance and continuously working on communication and conflict resolution skills are crucial steps in creating a safe and harmonious environment for your family.