Can anyone suggest why the "professionals" bother to put us through the assessment process, and give us a diagnosis, when all it comes down to is "you're officially crap with people, you have more problems than you thought & while there's some help available you don't qualify because you're too old", and then cutting us loose with no further help? Surely they would be better off spending the money & the time with people (children) they actually can help (or are at least prepared to try & help)?