Hi I am 26 and. I have always wondered is it possible for an autistic person like me to find love marry etc I really want to meet a nice girl I have had girlfriends but they always use me dump me is it me is there any way for me to find happiness. No one seems to share my hobbies my love for Disney or films. I know exactly the type of lady I want but no one seems to like me in this way any clubs dating agancies to recommend to me I am very low and deppessed about this and other things at the moment
I'd never had a girlfriend until I met my partner 12 years ago. We met in a "alternative" music night, that was our thing in common. We had loads of difficulties at the start, she had mental health problems, I wasnt sure how to deal with that. Domestics used to make me anxious for days. In a weird way we both compliment each other. She helps me with phone calls (which i hate) and dealing with stuff generally, and my routines provide stability she needs.
I do wonder if we hadnt met each other if we'd have partners at all?
The thing about it is... if we knew about each other problems, we might not have given it ago. Thankfully we have, my persistance has gotten her a diagnosis that helps her (right meds etc). Her support has helped my fulfill my potential academically, increased my confidence as such. At times it does feel as though we do walk against the wind, and it is easier to walk against the wind with a companion.
I think lots of people will be scared of problems and unfortunately try to define people through it.
I'd never had a girlfriend until I met my partner 12 years ago. We met in a "alternative" music night, that was our thing in common. We had loads of difficulties at the start, she had mental health problems, I wasnt sure how to deal with that. Domestics used to make me anxious for days. In a weird way we both compliment each other. She helps me with phone calls (which i hate) and dealing with stuff generally, and my routines provide stability she needs.
I do wonder if we hadnt met each other if we'd have partners at all?
The thing about it is... if we knew about each other problems, we might not have given it ago. Thankfully we have, my persistance has gotten her a diagnosis that helps her (right meds etc). Her support has helped my fulfill my potential academically, increased my confidence as such. At times it does feel as though we do walk against the wind, and it is easier to walk against the wind with a companion.
I think lots of people will be scared of problems and unfortunately try to define people through it.
