A common interest is a start, difficult as it sounds half the battle is common ground.
It may sound impossible but the secret is to not go looking, there are many damaged people on dating sites.
Try to seek out your interests in a manner that would get a varied audience at a reasonably local level.
Forums perhaps?
I used to chat to someone and their friend used to come along some times, it kind of went from there.
Be yourself, sorry I can't give more tips- my girlfriend kind of found me and 9 years and two children she is still around.
A common interest is a start, difficult as it sounds half the battle is common ground.
It may sound impossible but the secret is to not go looking, there are many damaged people on dating sites.
Try to seek out your interests in a manner that would get a varied audience at a reasonably local level.
Forums perhaps?
I used to chat to someone and their friend used to come along some times, it kind of went from there.
Be yourself, sorry I can't give more tips- my girlfriend kind of found me and 9 years and two children she is still around.