20170730 - ASD women

Lots of interesting people.. plenty of chance to get to know them better. 

You are always lovely and helpful. You have a good heart and are very astute..

onwards with this Spotty Misfit Elephant bestie!....and all of the others as well...QuirkyFriend, LoneWarrior, LimeGreenWelly, MartianTom et al....as well as Heather 

Ok.  That would be good if you think I can be helpful. 

I will if you will.....and Spotty must be on a promise. I hope we can welcome others as well x

I do feel very ruffled. I like that analogy it makes me smile. I'm so glad you didn't go I do so hope you'll stay. 

Please call me Elephant

i wrote a long post today and the deleted it...nearly took myself off the forum today after yesterday's thread ..but then this afternoon happened.

we look after each other here...and I hope that reassures you.....remember what I said about hamster bedding...it gets ruffled and then we need time to reflect and to put everything back together again to feel safe x

Tiger mothers....guard our most valuable

X I just realised why you might think that.. I did read your very thoughtful post on one of the threads today but I was out at the time and wanted to re-read it before replying. I can't face looking to see if it's still there. Yes I do find changes made like that difficult too and can understand why it would affect you that way especially if you have a routine. I'm glad you found the article interesting. It's a bit of a strange concept to grasp. But I don't want to talk about that now just wanted you to know I appreciated what you wrote. 

We do quite a good job of it too! x

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Sounds nice idea. Had one or two plums as been picking from tree. Early bed I think! 

And you? Chocolate biscuits in your hutch? :p

He's munching clover now in his cage. 

Thank you Spotty

but please be honest if I rattle your spots....I find friendships difficult...more so the more I want them to succeed. x

good to hear from you Misfit....still thinking of your g.pig under the newspaper x

️x please don't go. Thanks again both of you. A new day tomorrow. 

Hi Heather

i am 42 with one teenage son. I have recently self diagnosed....lots of research and high scores on online tests.

this is a safe place and we look after each other

Hello Heather and welcome.  I've got as far as being referred by my GP, but that was nearly six weeks ago and I haven't heard a squeak from any one. It is usually very friendly and supportive here.

I think we know who caused the upset and it wasn't you.

Hi Heather, welcome to the group :)

Please don't feel rubbish....the whole was horrid but it is done now. Sorry if I caused any upset.