being outed by teacher

my son is 19 and attending collage recently there have been a couple of incidents where he upset another pupil annoying him , the pupil reported him my son has been excluded from collage this week, today on of the class ha messaged my son to say the tutor has told the whole class hes autistic , and not to tell  my son hes informed the class... isthis allowed its private information, shurly its up to my son to disclose this information if he chooses, at the moment he want to kill himself

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  • Oh my goodness what wholly unprofessional and despicable behaviour by the tutor! 

    this may help him in the long run and for what it's worth my suggestion is this. You speak privately with the tutor and ensure he/she understands the depth of long term damage that's been done. A solution will be for your son to save face and so that means the tutor must out him/herself as having acted inappropriate and to do so in front of the entire class and at the same time to apologise openly to your son.

    it would be valuable for the entire class, tutor included - to understand what "inclusion" truly means ... 

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  • Oh my goodness what wholly unprofessional and despicable behaviour by the tutor! 

    this may help him in the long run and for what it's worth my suggestion is this. You speak privately with the tutor and ensure he/she understands the depth of long term damage that's been done. A solution will be for your son to save face and so that means the tutor must out him/herself as having acted inappropriate and to do so in front of the entire class and at the same time to apologise openly to your son.

    it would be valuable for the entire class, tutor included - to understand what "inclusion" truly means ... 

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